AITAH for dozing off while my wife was talking
A couple nights ago my wife was talking to me about our oldest son and I closed my eyes for a few seconds and she got upset because I was falling asleep.
I had worked earlier that day and after I got off of work I hung out our toddler so she could have dinner with her friend. She got home a little after 9pm, and i told her I was pretty tired and put the toddler to sleep where I also knocked out with him in our bed.
She woke me up close to midnight to move him to his bed and wanted to have a conversation about our teenager who expressed interest in having a later bedtime. We were in the living room, she was on the couch and I was standing up but as she was telling me how she felt about the bed time situation I began to doze off standing up and my wife became really frustrated and said "we don't have to talk about this right now"
I replied with "okay thank you I'm pretty tired" (I had to get up in 4 hours to get ready for work) which made her even more upset because I didn't ask her to repeat what she said and it made her feel like I didn't care enough etc.
We got into bed and she kept going off about it and told her "I don't want to argue about this right now." The whole thing got blown up and she was heated. I just let her vent and at the end I told her "I'm sorry for closing my eyes I didn't mean to come off as disinterested, just honestly tired."
2 days later she is still acting standoffish after I apologized that night for the whole situation.
TLDR: Had a tiring day after working and hanging out with our toddler so my wife could go out, started to doze off while she was talking to me close to midnight and she got mad.