u/auttieplantie

i’ve been with my bf for 4 years. my boyfriend (24 M) has expressed that he loves me, but I suffocate him. I (26F) suffer from major anxiety, he has added to it prior with doing things that I found out about- crossed some of my boundaries and I forgave him, but I have major anxiety being apart from him now. I keep feeling like I might get hurt again if I give him space or that our bond will drift apart if we are away from each other. I also just get hurt thinking why doesn’t he wanna be around me if he loves me? i get we need personal space, but i literally cannot give it up. i want to be on call with him 24/7 if im not around him, i want to send him reels and laugh and talk to him all the time, but he wants room to breathe and be himself. how do i do that without having major anxiety? i dont want him to break up with me.

hello all, ive been struggling really bad with my mental health in general. however, work is adding onto the stress I already have, and I can’t focus at work, i get easily overwhelmed and distracted by my own emotions, i just really REALLY need a break and want to catch my breathe to focus on my mental health.
i work as an admin, and i can’t stop just workin, i need money and have a 401k loan out, but I really can’t live like this anymore.
would it be a good idea to go on short term disability to recenter myself and focus on my mental health???
has anybody ever done this before as well? I need advice

i hate when i’m scared of being too much

and then i get told,

yeah, you are.

i get everybody has their limits

but I just wish you weren’t at yours

yet.

i pushed it too far.

why can’t i accept things at face value?

maybe i wasn’t born for the surface.

maybe i wasn't born for face value.

hello all!! <3

my name is autumn, i’m 26 and looking for more girl friends to game/talk/ and bond with!

i’m in EST time zone, my gaming time is typically any time after 1PM until 8PM during the week, BUT i have more free time on weekends!

I love to play overwatch 2, minecraft, stardew valley, repo, hogwarts legacy, animal crossing, and I have tons of other games we can play together!

i also have a switch 2 so we can play some games on there!!

i would love to make new friends that like to text, call, and to play with. i’m also down to watch movies/shows together for some more fun!

please feel free to reach out! i have a discord, so send me your username and we can talk more and get to know each other ! :3