I (26F) was seeing this guy (26M) for 3 months. Things were super healthy, we never fought, communicated often, hung out 1-2 times per week.
I went over Saturday-Sunday and we had a great time. Multiple rounds of sex, went to a cafe in the morning, took a little nap together. Walked me to my car and told me to text me when I got home like usual.
He replied right away and we chatted a bit but then I didn’t hear from him for hours. Pretty unlike him unless he’s asleep but by 9pm I texted to make sure he was okay since I knew he wanted to run errands. He replied right away saying yes and that he had been busy and didn’t see my text. When I replied he didn’t reply until the next morning. We called and talked for a little while that day after work but texting felt kinda off. I’m an anxious person so I honestly tried not to panic and read into it and give it the benefit of the doubt.
Well yesterday morning (Wednesday) he texted asking if he could come over and talk. I knew right away it was going to be the end.
The breakup lasted an hour and a half and we both cried and cried. He said he likes me a lot, not just as a friend, but usually by this point in a relationship he loves the person and he didn’t see himself getting there. That he didn’t want to waste my time if it’ll never get to that point.
He asked if we could be friends once I got through this, multiple times. And when he was leaving he kept saying “I don’t want to go.” Said maybe if we tried being friends and the feelings develop we could give it another go, but I know I can’t hold on to that hope.
I’m struggling so bad, I miss him so much. I just want to text him and call him even though I know I can’t. I don’t know what to do besides cry it all out.
I think eventually I would like to remain friends because I don’t want to lose him from my life but man I am struggling so bad right now and miss him so much.
Do you all think there’s any chance he’ll change his mind and reach out?