Trans lesbians and trans men
I'm so sick of seeing post after post of trans men (often boys or stuck in that regressive stage) saying their trans girlfriend doesn't want them to transition. I'm so sick of seeing objectifying comments about 'trying tboy pussy' in random sfw social media spaces. I'm sick of weirdass jokes abt having ~transmasc vibes~ (followed by commentary like 'love being mistaken for transmasc cuz that's how I know they see me as a woman'). I'm sick of comments abt how trans lesbians have (or plan to) 'pass as transmasc.' The trans lesbians who claim to be 'passing as transmasc' always have the most transphobic shit to say about trans men, and I imagine this must affect the way actual trans men in those spaces are treated.
It's suffocating.
Most of my female friends are trans lesbian (because I'm a gay trans man), so that's why I see this a lot, admittedly- but their circles are just rancid, and they all have this defensive behavior, where objectification/subtle misgendering of trans men (+tme nbs) is encouraged, and anyone who pushes back gets dogpiled w claims of transmisogyny.
Should I just......stop trying to be friends w trans lesbians completely? I can't stand the way their friends talk about trans men, but more than that- I can't stand how trans men just let them, and rarely push back. I'm sick of seeing trans men (+mascs, +nbs, etc) allow themselves to exist as rugs. I want to shake some of these guys, but they're sunk so deep.