
u/Zealousideal_Eye8277

Craving validation/recognition for completing tasks?
Does anyone else feel the need to have their work recognized? I know I'm not a kid but I love having a "good job!" or a "thank you!" as like a gold star of accomplishment for me. I don't like doing things as much if I'm not going to be recognized for it. I am 30 and currently unemployed living with my husband and in-laws. Sometimes when I don't have much to do if I'm feeling productive I will wash the dishes for my mother in law even if I didn't make any (because I'm living in her house and feel like I should be contributing something) and I love it when she notices and thanks me! That recognition is not why I do it but it definitely helps. Anyone else frequently need pats on the back even for basic things to keep you motivated and encouraged?
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