u/YEEKA_

Thoughts on dating

I posted on here before, but I want to rephrase my statement/question better.

Context: im 22 years old, I recently bought an apartment (I will move in, in September), I finished a study for a specific job and did my first interview of it, it went really well so im expected to start working that job in June.

So starting june I will start my high paying job and in September I will move into my apartment.

I feel like I dont fit in with 99% of people my age. It seems like im a lot more mature than most. I cant have a conversation with most people my age, because most of their topics are related to parties, drugs, "fun",....

And I talk about financials, future, goals, taxes,....

I have a more mature mindset than most my age, which means I cant talk with girls my age and older women wont take me seriously because of my age (which is a valid concern by the way), even tho im a lot more mature and goal driven. In their eyes im seen as a "kid"

So im kind of stuck. My age is too immature and too different in mentality. And older wont even give me the light of day due to my age.

At this point, a relationship is not a main goal, need to clarify that too a bit, I have a lot of things I need to handle at this moment, but in a few months everything will be handled.

What are your opinions and thoughts on this?

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u/YEEKA_ — 5 days ago
▲ 10 r/OnlineDatingApps+1 crossposts

Am I the only one who is really sick and tired of the dating market? Im a 22 year old guy. 185 cm. Have a good paying job with a good future, I just bought an apartment also, I will move in September. Im in a lot better situation than most 30 year olds I know.

I have a dating profile with literally professional photos on it. And even with that matches are non existent... are damn expectations that unrealistic for women?

The women that have approached me in real life and talked to me switched to asking my salary and how much money I have within the first 3 questions... damn 19 year old women who never worked a day in their life think theu deserve a damn rich guy... or expect a 20 year old to be rich... the fuck has happened to the world...

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u/YEEKA_ — 9 days ago