u/Wholeaal

My wife (31f) and I (32m) have been great friends with another couple since college, but something happened last fall that seems to be a problem in our relationship.

The four of us went away for a long weekend and got an Airbnb. While the other wife and I ran to the liquor store, my wife fainted in the shower. The other husband (my good friend) heard the loud thump from the bathroom and went to check on her, and got no response. He went in to the bathroom and found her collapsed in the shower. He picked my wife up and carried her to our bedroom and called 911 and called me.

Thankfully she was fine (she had fainting spells due to a change in medications). I’m very grateful to my friend for being there and stepping in.

His wife, however, isn’t so grateful. She doesn’t love that he physically carried her while she was naked, even though it was an emergency. She’s made comments to him that he could have placed her on the bathroom floor, and even asked me if it’s weird now that he’s seen her naked, and she has been cold lately. (It didn’t help that one point he honestly answered her that yes, he saw her naked, of course.)

My wife and I both think she is being ridiculous but don’t know how to patch over this situation, if we can do anything at all. She’s clearly more jealous than we ever realized.

I want to cut her out of our life over this.

My wife (31f) and I (32m) have been great friends with another couple since college, but something happened last fall that seems to be a problem in our relationship.

The four of us went away for a long weekend and got an Airbnb. While the other wife and I ran to the liquor store, my wife fainted in the shower. The other husband (my good friend) heard the loud thump from the bathroom and went to check on her, and got no response. He went in to the bathroom and found her collapsed in the shower. He picked my wife up and carried her to our bedroom and called 911 and called me.

Thankfully she was fine (she had fainting spells due to a change in medications). I’m very grateful to my friend for being there and stepping in.

His wife, however, isn’t so grateful. She doesn’t love that he physically carried her while she was naked, even though it was an emergency. She’s made comments to him that he could have placed her on the bathroom floor, and even asked me if it’s weird now that he’s seen her naked, and she has been cold lately. (It didn’t help that one point he honestly answered her that yes, he saw her naked, of course.)

My wife and I both think she is being ridiculous but don’t know how to patch over this situation, if we can do anything at all. She’s clearly more jealous than we ever realized.

My wife (31f) and I (32m) have been great friends with another couple since college, but something happened last fall that seems to be a problem in our relationship.

The four of us went away for a long weekend and got an Airbnb. While the other wife and I ran to the liquor store, my wife fainted in the shower. The other husband (my good friend) heard the loud thump from the bathroom and went to check on her, and got no response. He went in to the bathroom and found her collapsed in the shower. He picked my wife up and carried her to our bedroom and called 911 and called me.

Thankfully she was fine (she had fainting spells due to a change in medications). I’m very grateful to my friend for being there and stepping in.

His wife, however, isn’t so grateful. She doesn’t love that he physically carried her while she was naked, even though it was an emergency. She’s made comments to him that he could have placed her on the bathroom floor, and even asked me if it’s weird now that he’s seen her naked, and she has been cold lately. (It didn’t help that one point he honestly answered her that yes, he saw her naked, of course.)

My wife and I both think she is being ridiculous but don’t know how to patch over this situation, if we can do anything at all. She’s clearly more jealous than we ever realized.