u/Wanky_Platypus

Bonjour,

Mon coiffeur propose 3 prix différents (+Enfant, mais ça ne nous concerne pas ici)

Jeune (20 à 24) = 20€

Homme (25+) = 23€

Femme (Coupe Garçonnes uniquement) = 26€

Je suis un mec trans (né femme du coup) de 24 ans. Ils souhaitent me faire payer le prix femme, indépendamment de mon âge, et du fait que je demande spécifiquement "une coupe masculine" plutôt que "une coupe garçonne". (Et je ne passe pas d'une coupe longue à une coupe courte, je rafraichis une coupe déjà très courte)

Je me demande juste ce que dit la loi, légalement, sur les coupes genrées, et sur le fait de ne proposer une réduction "jeune" que pour les hommes cis.

I know r/survivingnfd does exist, but it kinda is more focused on people that actually found out, for sure, that the fnd was a misdiagnosis

It is quite often on this sub that I see people edging on not respecting Rule 13, and truly I understand, I do

Because of the mess that was my medical situation, I started showing symptoms at 14, it became unbearable at 17 and I was left without answers until 23.

During this mess, I had plenty of people, doctors, saying I was hysteric, or a liar, or saying it might be something and backtracking the day after, leaving me with no satisfying answer.

I remember that time, but, for me, NFD was my satisfying answer. It made sense, it is what I have, and it is kinda hard, to have come so far, and to read that even here, some people insinuate that NFD is not a real diagnosis, that is it the "we stopped looking, we gave up on you diagnosis"

I don't know how to both convey that I understand the feeling and I want you to have a space to talk about those feelings, and I don't feel like it should be here.

Bonsoir !

Ce qui me fait me poser la question dans ma vie personnelle c'est les boissons énergisantes. J'ai un très petit revenu (je vis avec 620€/mois) et ma dépense quasi-quotidienne pour le plaisir, c'est de m'acheter une boisson énergisante, qui me coûte en moyenne entre 2€ et 2€50

J'ai un peu toujours été élevée avec une vision du monde très manichéenne et j'essaie de grandir en découvrant les nuances, mais j'avoue que tout seul c'est pas facile, d'où le fait de demander l'opinion des gens

Je veux pas "vivre au dessus de mes moyens" mais je veux pas non plus vivre en ascète privé de tout

J'avoue que je sais pas trop où poser la limite entre les deux

Hey

I realised that I might be trans about a year ago and started coming out in january

I started using male pronouns, and bought myself male clothes, I discovered my style (I always thought grunge and baggy clothes were the best when I was a girl but I slowly realised it was mostly dysphoria so internalized I didn't realise it -not willing to care about my appearance, and now I absolutely love wearing suits nearly every day)

I feel like I'm really trans, in the sense that I don't "want to go back to being a girl"

I really don't like the parts of me that are feminine looking, I sadly have huge breasts, and I don't like the sound of my voice. Binding helps but sadly it does not do miracles, the mass has to go somewhere.

Yet, I have doubts about medically transitionning ? I have fears I would end up regretting this, beating myself over it. I was considered a "pretty girl" and I'm afraid I won't ever be a "pretty boy". It's kinda distressing

People that did medically transitions (hormones and or surgery), did you wait until you were *absolutely sure* or does it never really happen and you just have to go through the fear ?

Any tips, advices, reflexions is welcome