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u/Waitwaitwaitwaitwth — 1 day ago
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My brother is so fucking dumb it boils my blood

Fyi he is 17 and doesnt have a father figure for 6 years now because we have lost dad. i live in a country where if you’re a male and you havent been accepted by a college by the age of 18 they draft you to army where you’ll be serving for 18 months. This dumb mf knows that the only thing he has to do is fucking lock in, study and get into a college, thats it. But he is so stupid he procrastined so much now he has so little time and already got rejected from many good places because of his shitty ass score. Hes gonna get into a very expensive faculty with low score and we gon have to pay almost over 100k just to save his ass. You mas ask “why dont you let him go and serve in the army so that he can learn the consequences of his actions?” Welp we cant because the reputation of our family is very strong around where we live and if that happens we are gonna be humiliated. Also, even when he would come back from the army he would still not be able to achieve a solid future. He is the exact male material you see and think “this mf will be 30 and still be playing video games on his moms couch”.

My little brother has serious mental problems. He is very manipulative, narcisisstic and never ever takes advices, responsibilities, any good actions. He never sees the problem in himself. For years i tried to find a way to built a good relationship with him, FOR YEARS i tried to ignore his bitternes but i guess being someone’s sibling doesnt mean they are the best person in your life. When i try to give him hugs/compliments he responses with anger. Wtf? İf he wasnt my sibling and just a random guy, i would never be friends with him. İ wouldnt even say hi to him. You should be there and see how toxic he is, it actually shocks me.

My dads side has genetic mental disorders. They are very aggressive. İ guess thats where my brother got his stupid ass characteristics. He refuses to take psychiatric help. İ once took him to one, of course he somewhat distorted the situation and psychiatrist sent him home just with some shitty vitamins. Like wtf?

İ literally hate this kid. He made me realize that the youngest siblings, especially the third ones are always the dumbest. İf i will ever become a mother and be pregnant to a third fetus, i will abort its ass. İm this traumatised.

İ guess i wrote this just to vent.

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u/Waitwaitwaitwaitwth — 2 days ago