u/Vegetable_Print1602

Hi everyone, I’m looking for some advice on how to handle visits from my in laws. The relationship isn’t great between us, and I’m really dreading their upcoming visit. I’m wondering, should I speak up for myself if things get tense, or is it better to just stay quiet, be polite, and wait for them to leave? I want to make it as low stress as possible, but I also don’t want to feel walked over. Any advice would be really appreciated!

My husband has been watching porn and deleting his history for a long time, but today he forgot to delete it. The worst part is that he wasn’t just watching porn he was on hookup websites called Sniffles. I looked it up, and it’s for gay hookups. I have nothing against gay people, but he was on these websites while holding our son, and it made me feel sick. He claims it must’ve been an ad he never clicked on it at all but its map based website and I saw his location was already on it…

I canceled his family coming over to visit our newborn baby because I want to leave the city. He got mad. He wants to use me to create a perfect image like we’re just a happy family.