Why being forever alone is a positive thing
After so many years of being on your own, I have gotten to realise something.
I couldn't tolerate nor want anyone else in my life to be honest.
Everyone is talking about how you should have friends, how you desperately should be needing love... Know the banger from " Jefferson Airplane - Somebody to love "?
I always thought that no matter how much of a banger it really is... its wrong.
I realised I don't need somebody to love. I don't even desire it.
All the time I look around... all the people I know in broken relationships, colleagues that are divorced that hate their lives, the sad aunts, the broken mothers hoping that their kids will have it better... we are a social species, but we are not a loyal not an honourable species. There's no reason to invest, stay loyal and do your best for one. Family will drift away. Friends will find their relationships. And the love you find will only exist as long as there is something you have to offer.
Our species is known for its adaptability and for its opportunistic nature. We are that way. Have always been and always will be. Don't be fooled by kind words, submissive romances or boasting friends saying they will be there for you no matter what. No one will. We all come alone into this world and we all go away alone from this world. The rest is all theatrics and circusses meant to fill the time that we get to exist and experience this world.
Having someone else in your life is just asking for a knife in the back. Everyone is opportunistic, and anyone will only stay on your side so long as they have something to gain. So don't worry if you are alone. You are safe. As safe as you can be.