u/Upbeat_Tea_9218

Me and my friend who I will call Minnie have been friends since summer of 2023. We met on vacation and exchanged social media. Minnie and I randomly stopped talking for a while until one day last year we began talking again!

Everything was fine until we decided to exchange numbers because for some reason when we met, we never did. We began messaging each other’s numbers and she gave me a couple numbers to prank and one of them just so happened to be her ex-boyfriend.

This ex-boyfriend, we will just call him Swiper. (because he likes to steal people’s joy) had a three year age gap with Minnie. She was 13 and he was 16 when they first began dating. Minnie

A few months after we first pranked Swiper, Minnie told me that Swiper‘s best friend exposed him for having and spreading around private pictures of Minnie and that’s when we kind of stopped talking to Swiper all together They had broken up a bit before that though)

Obviously, Minnie was upset because she missed Swiper so I comforted her and I thought that was the end of that. But then she became friends with Swiper’s other best friend who we will call J. Skellington. J Skellington was just a bad influence on Minnie In general and encourage her to do REALLY bad (Luckily, she never did any of that despite the pressure)

To keep everything that happened with J Skellington brief, He ended up telling minnie that He never liked her and that he was just using her to feel loved and once again, Minnie was heartbroken. I had warned her that it wasn’t a good idea to be friends with your ex-boyfriend’s best friend, but I still comforted her and kept her in check when she wanted to break no contact (Because I do Love and care for her, despite her being stupid sometimes 🙁)

She ended up getting into three more relationships afterwards (That were quite recent) But because of everything She just won’t stop bringing up men Like J Skellington, Swiper, And all the more recent men that she’s dated, and she keeps asking me to troll them Or telling me stuff about them, but it’s getting exhausting

I keep telling her to take a break from dating because every time she dates somebody she gets hurt, but she just won’t listen. Recently, I tried asking her if she was interested in maybe dating a girl For a change and she said that she’s 100% open to it, but I haven’t seen her try yet. She just keeps bringing up men and it’s starting to get really annoying

Every conversation it’s “ This guy did this” “ This guy did that” Or “ This guy’s ex-girlfriend is messaging me” Like I said before I love her and care for her, but I am three years younger than her and it’s starting to get to a point man.. Every time I try to bring it up subtly, she just laughs it off And I understand That she’s heartbroken with everything and I know she has abandonment issues, but if this is just going to keep going on, she needs to get a therapist

Today I went on my side account on TikTok, where I post my face because only my friends and family have that account.

I had a DM so I clicked on it and saw a bunch of sexual messages from this guy in my ELA class. He made the mistake of telling me his name and showing his face prior to this.

He was saying that I could be his good little secret and that I should send him pictures of my “cherries” I don’t know what to do.

He said that I could probably lick it real well and that he would do anything for me.

I’m thinking of messaging the vice principal and reporting it because I can’t stand being in the same room as somebody who has been disgusting towards me

UPDATE: He got mad when i played dumb and made an ableist remark towards me and than proceeded to make block me. he’s only fueling the fire by doubling down and I will be reporting once I get home.

UPDATE: I did end up reporting him to TikTok and the school. TikTok got him banned from messaging I believe permanently and I have not gotten anything from the considering it’s the weekend but hopefully I will soon!!

And just to clarify: no he did not send me any explicit picture from what I know of there is no other victims and this isn’t even how he typically acts so I was taking a back when this whole thing started. I am educated on sexual harassment, and this is not my first time being sexually harassed. (I just didn’t know what to do for this case specifically because all the other times I have been sexually harassed they have been by adults and physically not online.) and no, the police isn’t gonna do shit. Trust me. And I’m also an immigrant and my area is not going easy on us so my parents have been trying their best to stay away from police for the sake of our own safety. I will update if I do get anything from the school.