Good date but wandering eyes?
I [28F] was attached to him [35M] on the 1st date from Bumble. He made a reservation at nice restaurant, Ubered for me. While eating he told me I had lipstick on my chin and proceeded to keep softly wiping my chin with a napkin where I felt sexual tension. The only problem was that he kept looking at the table behind me, which was a table of girls. I felt like he was flirty making eye contact with a girl. He SAW that I saw him looking. He looked, I looked back; and he was looking at me...It felt almost intentional. I was planing to ghost him because I thought he wasn't interested and wandering eyes red flag for me.. He paid everything, we stepped out the restaurant he pulled me by my arm and kissed me. It was very unexpected but he was a great kisser. While we were kissing, he held me by my butt and pushed me closer to him. Then my Uber pulled up and I left.
He asked 3 times for the second date at Jazz Bar (which I like) I said "I'm busy weekend" (excuse) He said what about Friday? I said I'm also busy. He texted me a day later "How's dinner tonight?"
What's your take on this?