u/TypeOpostive

I don't know what I'm doing wrong,
I dont if I'm too old or at the wrong places,
But I've tried to improve my looks so I can get things like better jobs, or connections.
But for the past few years, I've only gotten catcalling and men being creeps with, “my pretty privilege.”

I feel like I’ve interpreted this wrong,
I thought if I’ve polish myself up I could get a better job or lifestyle but it didn’t plan out the way I’ve intended.

Have any of you truly received a better opportunity for being attractive?
Edit: Thank you for all your advice, you’ll reminded me that personality still counts.

I can’t take coldness well, my eczema flairs up, I get colds, my seasonal depression comes, it’s just the worst time for me, despite being from Philadelphia my body reacts to cold weather that way, It gets extremely cold here, “it’s still kind of cold now,” “We don’t have very hot springs”, living in South Carolina in 2016, I wasn’t used to humidity in may or April I walked out with a jacket and a sweater and was drenched in sweat as soon as I walked out the door.
Despite that, it was the only thing I didn’t hate living down there, other than the beaches.
You can’t stay down there if you can’t drive.
Even if you don’t go out a lot.
Even in the early hours of the morning and at night in the S.C, was comfortably warm, in comparison of the freezing evening and twilight hours of the city around this time.
It crazy how your body can’t regulate at certain seasons at a place you lived all your life!

It’s not going well with the job hunting,
I'm trying to fill out a job application to be a caregiver. Mind you, I've been one for 8 years.
But for some reason when I filled out for this agency, it said I failed my test despite doing all of the questions right. I was thinking of just becoming a nail tech, I'm not bad at it,
there were times throughout my life I wanted to be one, when I was a teenager, and when my father was still alive I wanted to be one.
Is it possible?

I don't get perms to straighten my hair, “not as an adult”, I usually get silk presses. Right now, I'm keeping it braided to help it regain its thickness.
I don't have the patience to grow it any longer.
Nor wanted it super long in the first place.
“Wearing super long wigs and extensions
made me realize having waist-to-hip length hair
is annoying and alot to take care of.”
What's the experience with curly perms with 4C?,
Are they alot of maintenance?
Can you swim with one or do you still have to wear the swim cap?
I'm not expecting to be super loosely curled I'm not delusional, I'm expecting 4b at least.