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What’s something that your partner has done that’s made you feel really appreciated for working so hard for your family?

I started sub not realizing until after that there was a sub already for it. What’s the protocol or ethics here? I had started trying to build my sub by crossing and etc, and that’s how I stumbled upon the other sub.

Breadwinner wives are 16% of married households but 42% of divorces. Does this surprise you?
Research shows we still carry more housework and childcare even when we’re the primary earner. The only time husbands do equal work at home is when the wife earns 100% of the income.
How are you navigating the division of labor at home? What’s actually working?

Anyone else feel guilty spending money on themselves even though they’re the one earning it?
Like I pay every bill, handle every emergency, make sure everyone is taken care of — and then I feel guilty buying myself something without a reason.
Is this just me or is this a breadwinning spouse thing?

What’s something that your partner has done that’s made you feel really appreciated for working so hard for your family?

Let us know who’s cooking! Is it you or your husband? Does it depend on the day?

I’m a network engineer, i make 130k per year. My wife is a dentist, she makes 270k per year.

My wife thinks that I’m not contributing enough to our mortgage, bills, paying for our kids expenses , etc…, so every time when it comes to finance, we argue with each other. It creates significant tension. I feel insecure. I can’t remember how many arguments about finance we had during the last month 😟

To all the men, if your wife makes more than you, do you feel the same way as i do?

Update: my wife wants 50:50 split on everything

Calling all wives!! What do you do for a living?

I’m a financial analyst

Usually the boy's family is wealthier than the girls when approaching for arranged marriage. Anyone been a situation where the girl's family is more well off and the relationship worked out okay?

Problem/Goal: How do you deal with salary differences as a couple.

Context: Hi! I (27M) working as an engineer earns (65k salary) less from my parter (27F) (working as a doctor & earns about 100k+). We have been in the relationship since college. Just wanted to get some advice here from couples who are in the same situation how do you deal with finances and etc. Just to be clear I'm not insecure that I have a lower income, really just wanted to ask how to be a better provider/partner.

Added context : We are currently in a live in setup. Sharing the same amount of money per month. Planning on getting married soon so gathering some ideas from here po :)

Previous Attempts: None, just here to get some tips and advices.

Thanks!