I am pretty sure my husband doesn’t have anything planned or even get me some flowers but I am curious what other people’s plans are so I can swoon over it 😬
Been five days since he last showered. I am disgusted but I don’t want to shame him.
We’re both Mid 30s married for six years. He’s always been an irregular shower guy so I had become comfortable with every other day shower. I can’t get myself to accept these long stretches especially because we have a nine month baby now!
He’s never really had a routine or does much of self care. Doesn’t floss or brush his teeth at night no big. Doesn’t cut his nails regularly, bites them or tears it off. Doesn’t care for his mental health. Doesn’t buy his own underwear or socks. A lot of times has not showered even after going to the gym. I am pretty sure I missed mentioning some more things.
Any advice that is not therapy would be helpful because we tried that and it didn’t work because we need to put in the work to make it work.
Feeling defeated that this is how the rest of my life is going to be. I understand this could possibly be depression but how do you help someone who doesn’t help themselves.
Been five days since he last showered. I am disgusted but I don’t want to shame him.
We’re both Mid 30s married for six years. He’s always been an irregular shower guy so I had become comfortable with every other day shower. I can’t get myself to accept these long stretches especially because we have a nine month baby now!
He’s never really had a routine or does much of self care. Doesn’t floss or brush his teeth at night no big. Doesn’t cut his nails regularly, bites them or tears it off. Doesn’t care for his mental health. Doesn’t buy his own underwear or socks. A lot of times has not showered even after going to the gym. I am pretty sure I missed mentioning some more things.
Any advice that is not therapy would be helpful because we tried that and it didn’t work because we need to put in the work to make it work.
Feeling defeated that this is how the rest of my life is going to be. I understand this could possibly be depression but how do you help someone who doesn’t help themselves.