u/Throwaway0122999933

I’m a 33 year old woman and honestly I’ve already given up on love. After my bad experiences with men, I really doubt that I am someone that is likable when it comes to dating.

I wish I can just find someone that I find attractive and have sex and be done with it. I’m no longer interested in being a partner to a man who is nonexistent.

Im only posting this on the virgin subreddit because I know I will get a lot of people angry if I complain about being a virgin.

I refuse to have sex with people I meet on Reddit so I won’t even respond to any DMs on here.

This is what I really need to tell myself because I find it disgusting how I would envy women who did nothing bad to me because they barely had bad experiences with men. I don’t hate these women per se, but the only things that they did to piss me off was how they tried to force their opinions of men on me when I didn’t ask for it.

I had to mentally check myself and tell myself that just because some women barely have trauma with men doesn’t mean my bad experiences with men aren’t valid nor is it something that should be brushed off. I mean life isn’t fair and plus other women are complaining of the same things, so I’m not the only one with problems.

Just because other women are lucky enough to find good men and get married doesn’t make you inferior to them. Just because other women had good fathers doesn’t automatically invalidate your bad experiences with your shitty fathers. It also doesn’t mean that something is off about you.

I find it disgusting how some men will uplift women who barely had bad experiences with men while tearing down and victim blaming the women who did. Those types of men and the pick me women who do this are shitty and trash human beings and I need to stop letting people like this get to me.