u/Thready85

▲ 35 r/Vent

Having no filter isn't a virtue

I'm getting so tired of this sentiment on social media. It's really a big social media thing.

I guess I'm just too real, I have no filter, I just say it like it is, I'm just honest, I don't have a filter so deal with it

Why are you so special that the world needs your unfiltered honesty? What secrets of the universe are you working with that we all need to immediately hear about?

You don't hear educated people talking like that. When I was in my psych degree, we learned the importance of actually having a filter. Our words can affect others and if we're unfiltered, we can ruin someone's life with our words.

And I have autism, which I feel like I have to say because so many in the autism community talk about how their unfiltered candor is such a virtue. No dudes, it's not best to just say whatever is on our minds and it's vital that we learn how to have a filter in certain times.

It's always some basic people with ego making this a virtue too. I've been told I'm blunt and honest and for me I don't feel good about that. I don't have an ego for how I come across. I want to be more diplomatic and tactful.

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u/Thready85 — 3 days ago
▲ 359 r/PetPeeves+1 crossposts

People using the word "free" when describing something that comes with a subscription

Him: "Forza 6 is free on Gamepass next week."

Me: "No. It's included with your payment. Nothing on Gamepass is free."

And then the idiot argued with me on the meaning of the word free and how his use of it actually worked and how wrong my correcting him was.

This is bad consumerism. This is low consumer education too. They want us using the word free because it's awesome word of mouth marketing for them and they're not allowed to say it themselves. But we can use the word free and they'll never correct us.

Entertainment journalists use this word, especially when it comes to gaming, movie, and music subscriptions. They'll talk about what's coming to Netflix and if you have a subscription you can watch for free.

This is actually bad for society for people to conflate the concept of "included with a subscription" to something being free. It allows the real cost we're paying to become hidden. And unfortunately I think it's being driven by younger people who don't know any better because they grew up with Netflix and Gamepass and such. They have no basis to argue against those of us who are older who understand the weight of the term.

Things that are truly free in this society are few and far between. Everything else is paid for somehow, usually by the consumer or taxpayer.

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u/Thready85 — 4 days ago

Lawn mowing playlist ideas

Midwest summers get hot and it takes me an hour to mow

I got Cruel Summer

It's a Sin

Hot Together

Love is a Long Road

Running Down a Dream

Horse with no Name

Down on the Corner

If You Wanna get to Heaven

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u/Thready85 — 4 days ago

I need the original power adapter for the ******** ***** to trade it in but those don't last

I want to ask about trading in the ******* ***** and it requiring the original power adapter that came with the ***** when I bought it in 2020 before the pandemic. Those things don't last 6 years. Do I really have to spend $33 to buy a new one to include with the ***** if I want to trade it in for $75 to get the ***** 2?

Edit: Japanese Video Game Console Hybrid you can play handheld and docked and the new one came out last year but I can't mention them by name. Mario, Zelda, etc.

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u/Thready85 — 5 days ago

Where do these live service companies think gamers will come from?

I'm honestly asking any business minded person. This is not rhetorical. Where do these live service companies think they'll get gamers from?

Marathon is a financial failure. That's not hyperbole. No revenue can be gained that could make up for the cost at this point.

Companies only put money behind games they think will benefit them financially, obvious business 101.

They'll have some internal forecast of gamers that it will take to make a profit off the game.

and I want to yell "WHERE ARE YOU GETTING THESE GAMERS FROM?!"

Most multiplayer gamers have their chosen games. They're set and comfortable. Time is a finite resource. We have our chosen games to play with the time we have to play them.

People aren't going to try new shit out in massive numbers at this point. Even if a game reviews well, pulling gamers away from their comfortable games isn't happening.

It's frustrating seeing these financial failures because financial failures are like blood in the water for vulture capitalists who ruin companies.

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u/Thready85 — 5 days ago

I was rushed to the hospital last week in an ambulance because I had a-fib and heart rate and blood pressure out of control. I've always had panic and hypochondria that mimic heart attack and make me believe everything is one. Now I actually had something real.

So I'm panicking in bed with a klonipin and Bob Ross and neither are doing me any good.

Having a hard time.

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u/Thready85 — 11 days ago

He's homebound, only able to go out for doctor appointments. He is being told he'll have to go to a post office to verify his ID after all my attempts to do it failed. Isn't there a better way? Thank you.

Update: I just learned about id.me and this thing saved my sanity. I just got out of the hospital with an a-fib scare and I do not want to mess with the government lol.

I was able to download his award letter and everything to my computer. Thanks a ton for the help.

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u/Thready85 — 11 days ago

I live in St. Louis. Yesterday was a bad one. I was filming the high winds and rain from inside my house and I saw my neighbor across the street get in their car and leave.

We were less than a mile from the county line where there was a tornado warning on the other side.

we have people making jokes about sitting on the front porch watching the 'nadoes. We have people getting stuck in standing water. We have people getting into hydroplaning accidents.

And the whole time our top 3 news stations are interrupting programming with weather alerts

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u/Thready85 — 15 days ago

I live in St. Louis. I turned my Synology off because we're about to get hit by severe storms. What do you consider a threat big enough to proactively turn your Synology off? I have an APC UPS with a data cable to my Synology and I configured the automatic shut down process.

But the threat of 80 mph gusts and possible EF3s have me paranoid and I don't want to trust it to the APC.

Thank you.

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u/Thready85 — 16 days ago