Having no filter isn't a virtue
I'm getting so tired of this sentiment on social media. It's really a big social media thing.
I guess I'm just too real, I have no filter, I just say it like it is, I'm just honest, I don't have a filter so deal with it
Why are you so special that the world needs your unfiltered honesty? What secrets of the universe are you working with that we all need to immediately hear about?
You don't hear educated people talking like that. When I was in my psych degree, we learned the importance of actually having a filter. Our words can affect others and if we're unfiltered, we can ruin someone's life with our words.
And I have autism, which I feel like I have to say because so many in the autism community talk about how their unfiltered candor is such a virtue. No dudes, it's not best to just say whatever is on our minds and it's vital that we learn how to have a filter in certain times.
It's always some basic people with ego making this a virtue too. I've been told I'm blunt and honest and for me I don't feel good about that. I don't have an ego for how I come across. I want to be more diplomatic and tactful.