"If he wanted to, he would"
Has anyone else heard this? This would often be posted passive-aggressively at me after I would not do something that was either very inconvenient or borderline impossible.
If I would choose to take a break at work to eat lunch rather than talk on the phone the entire time, I would be publicly shamed for it. If I would not drive to the store at 4 AM because said person wanted a cherry coke but also did not want to drive, I would be shamed for it.
I wish the new mental health trend on social media was "how to find a therapist" and not "how to control your partner through guilt and shame"