u/Teajaym518

I’ve been involved with someone for some time now. I wouldn’t say we’re super close, but we’ve certainly gotten to know each other over time. We are very similar in a lot of ways - but there are things I feel are being held back, kept hidden on purpose maybe- related to psychological issues, mental / emotional side of things. I’ve tried on my own to figure it out, searched for potential answers and even tried bringing it up in conversation once or twice. So far I haven’t found anything that would explain this situation / experience. Or at least the one answer that feels like I could somewhat give a pass to is deeply personal and a little bit far out for practical reasoning…

I’m not sure what to do or how to proceed- umm does anyone know what I’m saying ? Has anyone else been in a similar situation?

Does a moderate drinker have the right to tell their close friend (who is turning into a major alcoholic) they are concerned for them and think they should reevaluate their relationship with drinking? Or does that just come off hypocritical and soap boxy

This problem - I been on n off with this person for a while but for whatever reason I feel way more of a connection with someone from their past -it’s bizarre like we never even met -but it feels like the coolest bro fest, taking over the world, river of brewskis, ego mania ever. Kinda thing like building the Eiffel Tower , inventing the lightbulb, bending the whole world to our will - it’s weird n messed up for all parties lol - but wtf is there to be done? Does this even make sense ?

I’m not normally the loud, noisy, fighty type in relationships- but I find the more I care about things, when it goes bad, the more batshit crazy I go- I’ve heard different theories - sadly most girls I’ve talked to say if u haven’t gotten into a fist fight it’s not real love. The closest I ever got to real violence was breaking some things - during my 20s in my first “serious” relationship- idk why but American girls love when the guys are mean to them n treat them like property- is this at all attractive? Help me figure this one out

I’ve always had this problem in relationships, it’s like I don’t get freaky enough for anybody. Even the goodie Christian types are like wtf are u actually really that way? I’m talking about intimacy and physical contact… it’s just been horrible… my childhood family ended early and I never saw much intimacy growing up - school does a crappy job at explaining it- n on top of that I’m extremely sensitive energetically- like I feel everything… n anything sexual is like a live wire to me-

wtf am I gonna do about this ? lol