For those about sex and end of party (suggestions)
The anxiety will go away the longer you are sober and have sex , yes give yourself permission to enjoy sex and have it , first few times will be anxiety it’s normal cause you haven’t had it that way so the more you do it the confident you become , the I can’t get hard with sex or anxiety is why people use again but it’s normal . To start I would jerk off with porn and not just rely on others . If your fresh off drugs then it’s gonna take a while for your hormones to get back to normal and fire at the rate it’s suppose to , all your dopamine and receptors are maxed out . Think of it like a regeneration of liver when you quit alcohol or just doesn’t become brand new but takes time .
We don’t talk enough about training your mind to have sex and it’s even baby steps . First being naked watching porn , see if get erection . Then jerking ( no cock ring ) to see if get hard , also reprogramming yourself to not sketchy sex porn (the ones with pure drug use ) to regular porn etc . Your retraining your entire brain and nervous system so allow yourself some fumbles and learning experience and remember baby steps of you will use