u/StreetAd1209

My husband and I (along w my sister in law and her family) all live 2 hours away from my mother in law (she lives in the desert basically- in the middle of a legit ghost town almost). I became a mother in 2021, so been a while. Every year without fail, my husband makes me feel guilty for not going to visit his mother for Mother’s Day (mind you, she can also and HAS driven countless times to where we live, so she’s capable), while I myself am a MOTHER, and would rather be here at home. AITAH for feeling like he never takes my feelings into consideration? I feel like wanting to be prioritized over his mother on Mother’s Day is never an option for him, and it pisses me tf off. What do you guys think? Any advice and different points of view are appreciated!

My husband and I (along w my sister in law and her family) all live 2 hours away from my mother in law (she lives in the desert basically- in the middle of a legit ghost town almost). I became a mother in 2021, so been a while. Every year without fail, my husband makes me feel guilty for not going to visit his mother for Mother’s Day (mind you, she can also and HAS driven countless times to where we live, so she’s capable), while I myself am a MOTHER, and would rather be here at home. AITAH for feeling like he never takes my feelings into consideration? I feel like wanting to be prioritized over his mother on Mother’s Day is never an option for him, and it pisses me tf off. What do you guys think? Any advice and different points of view are appreciated!