WHAT DO I DO??
So I found out today my ETL has been talking about me and getting management to collectively side against me. She will be nice to me or attempt to fix the issues with us but then turn around and talk about me. I can’t even go to HR about it bc the HR ETL is also involved. My SD I think is sick of all of this as well so I don’t think I can go to her either. I haven’t done anything to warrant this reaction. She had an issue with me months ago and it turned into this, but has never communicated anything to me. TLs/ETLs feel comfortable flat out ignoring me bc of it. AP also is involved in the group dynamic. So my big question is, what can I do about it? Is it even worth fixing or should I just quit. It’s so fucking tiring atp.