u/Spirited_Belt3399

I live in an apartment with 5 other girls. Four of these girls are very messy and NEVER clean up after themselves. I am constantly cleaning up spills, putting things away, washing dishes that are not mine, etc, and it is exhausting. I have tried to bring it up a few times and politely ask people to clean up after themselves, but I've been met by extremely rude responses (them calling me petty, telling me I should just clean it if it bothers me, them telling me I'm not in charge, etc). The ONE girl who actually does clean up after herself however, has created a chore chart system to try to combat the issue. The problem is, nobody actually does their chores. Usually after about a week, if chores still haven't been done she just rotates the names. I've gotten to the point where I'm tired of being the only person that cleans and does my chores. So this week, I did not do my chore (the people who had it the past two weeks haven't done it either). Now all of a sudden she's making a big deal out of it and saying I need to do it now. I feel like if I don't do it I'm being a hypocrite, but if I do do it I'm just letting her boss me around. I'm tired of being the only person who cleans, and she has not said ANYTHING to the other girls about not doing their chores, only to me. AITAH if I don't do it?

*TL;DR* my roommates are slobs and I'm the only one who cleans. If I stop cleaning and they confront me about it what do I do?

I (21f) struggle a lot with my mental health, and do not have very many friends. Obviously I would love to have friends, but I'm very shy and it's hard for me to branch out to new people. On top of this, my living situation is really unhealthy right now and my roommates are very rude to me. I'm constantly hiding out in my room because I am genuinely scared of them. Because of all that, I have been very very stressed out and sad lately. I cry a lot, and often turn to my fiance (23m) for comfort. However, he often tells me that I need to find friends because he's tired of comforting me. He gets mad at me when I cry and tells me I'm emotionally draining to be around and that he is exhausted from me. Obviously, this only makes me feel worse. He says I'm asking too much from him and he shouldn't have to deal with me like this. Am I in the wrong here? I feel like if he really loved me he would be more understanding and try to comfort me instead of yelling at me and telling me I'm draining his energy. Anyways, I really love him and he can be so great sometimes, but I just don't know if I can get past this. I'm kind of scared to marry him now because I just don't think he will be there for me when I need him. Help! What do I do?

*TL;DR* my fiance gets mad when I cry. Should I marry him?