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I clean when my boys are gone to daycare and nap when my little one is down , I'm off work at the moment and looking to go back to work In June with my current employer. We have 3 boys so house always needs cleaned but our newborn loves to sleep and gets fed every 3-4 hour's so I'm trying to find stuff to do and not just clean , and nap.

what are some thing's you enjoy doing? while your kids are at daycare / school my partner works seasonal and will be going back to work monday. 🙌🙃

I have been ignored by my Boss going on almost 3 month's. after I had my baby I had written a professional email stating I need to come back to work sooner than later I was aiming for mid march , now it's probably going to be june. I am litrally broke and using my savings and child tax for rent. 3 children to feed. I had gotten 1 answer from her already when I called she said she was at her son's hockey game and would call back monday! this was 2 weeks ago!!! I called back no answer so I had left a voicemail. stating I need to come back to work soon please call me so we can discuss.

I've sent up to maybe 8 text , and I'm done calling cause she never answers anyway and never bothers to call back. I even did up a letter and left it on her desk. she runs a small school but has instructors she's not even a teacher. I'm sure she checks her emails atleast 100 times a day. she runs a nursing home , she should have someone answering to her calls , and helping her stay on top of stuff this is completely unacceptable, and very unprofessional for a Boss. and I'm about to take action and move forward on finding a different Job. Next email I'll be stating I'll give you till this date to answer me back. I've also been into the nursing home but she's never there. when I show up so I had asked my co worker to let her know when she is around and I'll pop in next time I hate getting my co workers involved it's not there damn Job.

My partner of 6 year's is misrable in the morning's and my parent's cannot stand him. they have came over multiple time's to help me we have 3 children togather and a newborn. he has gotten out of hand started with name calling , commenting on my appearance and how I look calling me fat ugly cow, and name's that should never even be said EVER! I wouldent even say them myself.

my dad had came over to check on us and my partner was yelling still when my dad came by. my dad is a cery quiet man and will usually keep to himself he dident say anything he hates drama he always says.. you picked him and I did pick him and he picked me but we aren't ment for each other at this point and thing's need to change. my partner was previously fired from his job after I had our 3rd baby. but he was hired at a new company and starting april 20th. I'm unsure how it will work out but we will see.. he sleeps in and if I ask for help he looses his mind my dad told me yesterday for me to get him help but I cant force someone to get help if he doesn't want to help himself but I will leave him if he doesn't get help.. and I've told him that.

now this morning different story: Yesterday he told me thing's are going to be different and he was sorry for is actions and will do better. it's always the same sob story but of course he slept in again and made things a living hell for me. at this point I was really upset and said somthing I probably shouldn't of said but he talks about his deceased mother all the time infront of out children. and I opened my mouth and said your mother would be proud wouldent she.. I know for a fact she wouldn't she would of never let him disrespect me like that. but after I thought he had calmed down and was coming towards me to give me a hug he absolutely was not calm. what I thought was him going to give me a hug was a big smack on the head I mean this smack felt like a punch to the face it hurt! and I'm here crying my eyes out wanting help. and to get away as far as possible from him. I went upstairs with my baby. and he had taken the boys to daycare my parents aren't happy with him right now and also said yesterday they will be giving us some space. he needs to work on himself and my mom is being to kind and generous with him and I'm tired of it. she herself is tired of it. he doesn't ask for anything but she always asks us. if we need anything as she always has extra stuff I won't be taking nothing free from her now. and also he had blocked my mother on Facebook. 😕

he's not just emotionally abusive but now becoming physically abusive towards me and he told me I had deserved the smack across the head. but unsure how I deserved this I ask for help and you smack me I get up with 3 boys in the morning both parent's should be doing morning routine I've told him

over and over I need help in morning's if you want to nap in afternoon that's up to you and have at it! he's basically a stay at home dad right now. all he does is drive the kid's to daycare I also don't drive as I have epilepsy. and he has a big issue with that but I had bought this car for us. he didn't even have his license till age 33. I choose not to drive due to my safety , our children's and , other's life's.

now that he has physically hurt me I am taking action but I should have awhile ago .. and my parent's know what he has done. and have now really lost all respect for this man they thought he could change , get help he doesn't want to get help and that's on him. So I'm doing myself and my boy's a favor and leaving.. my parent's said we can stay at their place till we get situated at this point I'm extremely embarrassed and feel stupid for staying with this man.

Had my 1st period after baby I had our baby in mid January and my flow has been awful but no cramping at all just very sore legs, back pain. My period has never been this bad I'm litrally soaking a pad every 2hrs its so uncomfortable it feels like im pissing myself , and I always have to check to see if it had went through my pants After having 3 baby's my periods have never been this bad. But I'm wondering if it's cause of having both my tubes removed during my Csection.

only on my 2nd day of my flow.

I have been ignored by my Boss going on 3months. before I had my baby we discussed me coming back in mid march .. but she has not replied to me at all. She answered me one time a few weeks back by phone told me she would call me back the following day I gave her plenty of time to call me but I reached out to her again and I had to leave a voicemail as no answer and since than I have not heard a word back I have also went into my job a few times but I cannot afford the gas there and back when she is not going to be there she is never at work . only usually on certain day's but I guess she's been going in different times and day's now . it's getting to the point where I need to take on something else and find a better Job

I have 3 boys to feed! and my partner is going back to work mid april he only works seasonal. I had just finished my personal support work. and got certified I've been at my job for 7yrs and I had to get certified to come back. and that's what I did out of my own pocket and my job did pay half. but I wanted to come back why wouldent I want to come back to a job I've been at for the last 7yrs its hard to find something these days especially in my city everyone is struggling finding work. and for my age being almost 30 I didn't want to go out and find a new Job that I might hate.. I loved working here but being ignored is one thing and I've been starting to think this might be the best thing for me to do is just leave.

I didn't get fired or let go.. I left work early due to issues in my pregnancy like in mid December. I was having my baby January 22nd BTW anyone if anyone is wondering why I wasn't qualified for ei , or maternity leave is cause I needed more hours and had Just went back to work in September 2025 I had my middle child in 2024.

I was due to come back to work mid march and haven't heard from my boss at all she said she would discuss my time to come back before I had my baby but I would of liked to come back mid march. I had my baby In January and couldn't qualify for Ei , maternity leave as I just had a baby back in 2024 I had went back to school during that time also and went back to work with them In September to try to qualify for ei & maternity leave but by the time January arrived I still needed 300hrs so I discussed with her about coming back in mid march she said we will discuss the hour's and such as she was doing schedule up and was putting everyone back 8hrs it used to be 12hr a shift but now 8hr. but have not heard from her at all and she's been posting on Facebook-

I have been reaching out on facebook and text and phone. I went into work left a well written letter up to let her know please let me know when I can come back to work. she had got my phone call 1 time a few weeks ago she answered and Said she would call me back the following day never did so I left a voicemail telling her please get back to me it's very important I am really needing to come back to work I don't have any income. and she knew I didn't qualify for Ei or maternity leave so I told her again that over voicemail.

but I have not heard from her again all she said was she was busy the last I was talking to her and will call me the following dayI'm getting fustrated and feel like I have been let go but she has not told me that she's been basically ignoring me I've been there 7 year's and went to school and had to pay for the schooling Just to be able to come back to work last year. I'm sure I can do better but it be nice she could atleast let me know what's going on this isent right and I might have to take action there's no HR so unsure what I could really do. 😒

I had went on leave in January for the birth of my baby. hes 3 month's old now and I told my boss even before I had my baby I wanted to come back earlier as I was not qualified for EI or maternity leave due to having my 2nd baby in 2024 and don't have enough hours. I discussed that I wont be taking month's off I only wanted 6-8 weeks she had agreed and told me that's great I'll message you and discuss when would be good I myself suggested mid march.

Ive reached out to my boss many time's already have only heard from her once when I called her by phone she answered and said Hey sorry can I call you monday I told her thats fine this was a few weeks ago and still haven't heard back when she said she would call I waited around for her call that monday. So on Tuesday I had called left a voicemessage as she dident answer you can see when she reads my message she still hasn't read it but she's read and replied to all my other one's from Feb 1st what had made her randomly stop just like that I wonder? I've also wrote a letter up and brought it to her office. went in many time's when she wasn't there she runs this place but is never there we have gotten complaints cause she's horrible at replying back to residents family's this is a special care home and she cant even do her own job she says shes so busy but than goes on a vacation? she loves to travel and she puts traveling first then other's needs I'm still employed there she hasn't fired me or gave me a reason why I would be able to come back.

I've given up I have been with this place 8 year's and now feel lile I did somthing wrong and dont know how to get ahold of her. it's mother daughter who run the company but mother only does payroll and wont deal with anything else. I don't know what else to do I need money coming in and I'm using savings and child tax for bills which is sad.. 🥺

I'm going to let her know next time she reaches me it's not going to work and I need to find a new job I've already been looking. but it's crazy how somone so invested and wanted me as a employee shut me out of their life Just like that. Im glad I got my PSW and went to school this past year got my diploma like they said if I didn't go I wouldn't be able to come back. but hey I went finished got my diploma while 34weeks pregnant and now

without a Job is what believe 😭

I have been working for this company for going almost 8 year's I had my baby in January I wasn't approved for maternity leave , or EI as I had a previous pregnancy in July of 2024 and only started back to work in September 2025. I dident have enough work hour's to qualify and was working and going to school while pregnant I was juggling alot and only working 7-3. but That was okay and me and my Boss mentioned that I would have to come back to work sooner after the birth I wasn't ready after a month but I wanted to come back mid march. I don't have any income and basically living off my savings and my parent's have been helping which I don't like it's embarrassing as a grown woman. my partner only works seasonal and is on Ei.

the only problem is we didn't discuss a date when I'd be coming back and I've been trying my best to get in contact with her litrally since February 1st. she wont Answer , or call me back after I left voicemails, and I even did up a note and put it on her office desk. I don't know what to do in this situation it's a family owned care home so Mother & Daughter run it and I can't even talk to my bosses mom as she said she doesn't deal with that and she only does payroll. and I mentioned I've been trying to get ahold of her and all she says is oh.. she's been so busy with her house she had a flood I'm not going to fall for that I'm sorry seems she's to busy to even own a business. I litrally am loosing my mind I have went into the nursing home twice already , one time she wasn't there and the other time this was yesterday I had went in to talk to another co worker to discuss somthing. and I walk into the room there she is she looks at me says Hey looking great love the shirt walks out That was a total 5seconds I wanted her to look at me tell me sorry for not calling back monday . and leaving me on read for the past 3months! I'm sick and tired of living off nothing and this is a serious matter but honestly she's like this with all her employees if they have a question takes her days to even answer.

I am so clueless on what to do .. I can't keep going into the nursing home I never know when she is there she is litrally never there I've messaged my coworker to let me know when she is in and I'll come talk to her it's not even their job and I hate to even ask that of them. I'm so stressed about this whole thing I just really need my Job I have 3 kids that depend on me my dad is retired and has been saying he will take our youngest while I go back to work it would only be 8hr a day. but I can't even see myself going back this has gotten to the point were I say Fk this I can do better!!