I really love Sam in the game, but tbh, I prefer him as some brother in arms. Kinda like the Arthur and John trope. After marrying him in my first playthrough, I didn’t really like the flirting stuff, so I just decided to not commit.
I, 15M, recently asked out a girl, 14F. She was aroace, and I wanted to respect her boundaries, so I told her that if she doesn’t feel comfortable, I won’t push it, or if she does accept, I won’t push her out of her comfort zone.
I wasn’t expecting her to accept, and she did not accept. She said that she didn’t feel anything between us (although, she included “yet,”) and that she wasn’t in the right state of mind to have a relationship. She all said she didn’t know me well enough and that we could still be friends.
I felt a weight lifted off of me just by confessing, and the fact that she still wants to be friends. We are just taking a break from talking to eachother for a week or two, though.
I’m fine with her not wanting to be in a relationship. The only thing that’s making me wonder is how she kept on alluding to something later on. She constantly said things like “I feel too young for a relationship **right now,**” or “I’m trying to figure things out **right now.**”
Do I potentially have a second chance in the future? And if I do, how long do I wait?
I, 15M have been dating 14M for nearly a year. He and I are in a long distance relationship tho. Quite literally across the US (I live on the east, him on the west.) It’s been hard to do anything romantic or intimate— especially since this is my first relationship.
At my school, there’s this girl, 14F, who I really like. I do indeed have a crush on her. Especially with my age group, I know that we find pretty much everyone attractive and enticing. I’ve never thought about leaving my partner until recently.
14F and I have a lot in common, whether it be music, authors, etc. This is why I took a liking to her. The only problem is that I’m already dating 14M, and I believe 14F is AroAce.
I have no problem with people who are AroAce. And even if 14F and I aren’t in a relationship, I want to get my feelings off my chest and tell her I like her romantically— and that she doesn’t have to reciprocate any feelings. But I’d feel guilty not telling my boyfriend any of this. But then, if I break up with my boyfriend, and 14F doesn’t decide to reciprocate my feelings, (which is likely,) I wouldn’t want to be single.
What do I do?