AIO for finding this behavior rude/disrespectful?
Crossposting. I (German in Germany) met someone a week and a half ago at a club. We had a blast and exchanged numbers. We started texting on WhatsApp the next day and they said they want to meet up again. I went on a trip with a friend before Easter. We exchanged a message a day which I liked. That way we showed interest but weren’t too intrusive. We agreed to meet up today (Wednesday).
I returned last Friday, we exchanged a few voice messages. My last one said something along “good night”. No response ever since. It was fine because I knew they were busy over the holidays. They still looked at my “updates” on WhatsApp.
Yesterday I sent them a text stating I hope they had nice holidays and what are the plans for Wednesday. Since I am still off work and they’re not, I told them initially to let me know what time would suit them around their work schedule. They haven’t ‘read’ the message yet but again looked at the photos in my “update”.
I hate playing games (like hard to get) and I find it disrespectful/rude to not answer a direct question regarding a date. If you changed your mind, fine. Just let me know so I can plan my time differently.
By now I am not expecting an answer anymore and am not sure if I’d want to keep any interaction with them as this is just not my type of communication.
I just wonder if this behavior is normal to others or if in fact this is rude/disrespectful? AIO?