I have never felt truly accepted genuinely and it really makes you ponder.
Society places too much weight on facial differences
I want to get out of my own head and hear from others with this same condition who have felt genuinely included by others in their lives.
If your other kids have severe sibling rivalry and lack real empathy and general kind traits then the cleft kids will face troubles.
I believe cleft kids need a true peer ally where being kind "just because they feel bad for them" while deep down being as prejudiced and ill spirited as the general population, just spells trouble for the cleft baby/kids.
I've seen very expensive Valentine's day gifts (+$200) being given out and it's always some typical sought after male archetype.
I've heard of elite clubs or restaurant invitations their (usually wealthy) significant others gift them with and it's no secret a sizable portion of all relationships (among all physical looks range tiers) are direct or indirectly sugar daddy/baby dynamics (and there's nothing wrong with that!).
We all know it's better to be a prince charming than some undesirable toad, so don't lecture me some BS you don't even apply to your own lives.
Yes we should all strive to be the best version of ourselves (gym, career, personality, hobbies, yada, yada) but even so it's impossible to fully experience what it's like to having won the genetic lottery.
So, what's it like to be in the elite tier of life?