u/SheGaveMeViolets

♡27F4F, Femme4Butch, Midwest US, seeking soulmate♡

Hi there! I am a 27 year old lesbian lady from the midwest. I am looking for my forever person, should I meet the right woman. I am monogamous, child free by choice, and share my life with my two dogs (mini goldendoodle and maltese). I am allergic to cats even though I do love them, just to put that out there. For my job, I am a full time caregiver for a family member with developmental disabilities.

In my free time I can usually be found playing a video game (usually Fortnite), or watching a good movie or show. My favorite movie is Portrait of a Lady on Fire and my favorite shows currently are Arcane and The Sopranos. I also love witchy things, and consider myself spiritual as well as an atheist when it comes to the question of a god. I am a beginner cellist and have been taking lessons for about six months or so. I am five foot three and curvy. I have been on a health journey since June of 2025, so I don’t wish to date anyone who’s fatphobic. If a woman wouldn’t have loved me at my worst, she doesn’t deserve me at my best in my opinion. I’ve lost about 115 lbs so far and have about 65 to go until I am at my final goal.

As for what I am looking for, I am seeking a 25-35 years old, monogamous, child free (this one is VERY important. I know I do NOT nor will EVER want children!), cis lesbian woman. I am Les4Les, and do not prefer to date other sapphic sexualities or gender identities (for example, enbies), just to be transparent and to avoid wasting anyone’s time.

I hope to find a woman that shares similar views to mine about the world, especially when it comes to things like being childfree. I also value things like kindness, protectiveness, dominance, and loyalty in a woman as well. The world feels so scary at times, so I desire a woman who can make me feel safe and accepted, as I hope to do for her as well. I am a very kink positive submissive and lean toward the service top/switch side of things, so I would prefer to find the opposite of me when it comes to intimacy.

I hope I gave a pretty good idea of who I am and what I am looking for, so if anyone is interested feel free to message me or comment. And to my future wife, I can’t wait to meet you. Thank you and have a great day💜

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u/SheGaveMeViolets — 9 hours ago

Venting

I downloaded a couple dating apps and it is SO hard to find butch women (butches that still identify as women as opposed to nonbinary or transmasc identified folks) that is all that is the rant lol. Hopefully my wife is out there somewhere but with my luck she’s wandering around a home depot or something lol

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u/SheGaveMeViolets — 3 days ago