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Best place to find khaki shorts?

F21 starting an internship soon in florida but have no idea where to shop for shorts! I like the ones with a lot of pockets on them. I’m having a hard time finding convenient and appropriate work shorts (most I find are not fingertip length). Nervous to order on amazon in case they don’t fit since a lot of stuff I’ve found in amazon sounds too big according to the size charts

Thanks in advance!

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u/Sea_Source_7593 — 3 days ago

Hip dysplasia?

I apologize for the short video, but just got back home from college and noticed he walks with his back legs kinda weird. Someone else in my family owns the sister and she doesn’t have any problems walking or anything out of the ordinary. Could this be hip dysplasia or does his walk look normal?

u/Sea_Source_7593 — 4 days ago

Posted on relationship advice, but got no feedback there so I am posting here.

I 21F have been with my boyfriend 21M for two years, but lately I’ve been thinking he isn’t the person I want to marry. His sarcasm and constant wanting to bicker leaves me feeling frustrated and I don’t want to feel this way for the rest of my life. I do love for him, but I worry we have just grown into different people. I have thought about talking through my feelings with him so we maintain transparency and honesty in our relationship, but conversations like this end with him crying, begging me to never leave him, or telling me I can never leave him. I just don’t want to go through that process again but I feel bad for holding this back. I just feel like he can’t handle conversations like this. The main problem is that we have been living together for the last year and will be living together again next year in a dorm at college. If we were to break up, that would complicate the living situation. Not to mention, I’m currently storing dorm stuff at his parent’s house since I live out of state from where we go to college and he is in state.

While I want to fight and make this work, I also have been thinking about a person I used to “talk to” right before my boyfriend and I started getting to know each other and dating. We used to facetime into late hours of the night while I was away at college and tell each other everything with what we called “storytimes”. Hanging out with him felt easy but also exciting. The banter through text made me giddy with butterflies. We did this for probably 4-5 months before all of a sudden we stopped talking. I don’t remember if it what my fault or his but then I got caught up in my current boyfriend making efforts to get to know me and found myself really liking him.

When thinking about my current relationship, I don’t feel those butterflies anymore. We don’t banter with each other and if I try to, he takes it the wrong way and I have to explain it to him and I end up feeling frustrated. I don’t know if you’re always supposed to feel “butterflies” in a relationship or if that’s just something I have held on to from reading fiction. Is it just that I am comfortable with him and because we are past the newness of our relationship?

With this other guy I have been thinking about, I knew I liked him all those years ago, but we never talked about our feelings so I don’t really know if he liked me back or not. I have a feeling he did though because I saw some of his friends at a new year’s party during that time and they kept asking me what my intentions were with him. I was just a dumb 18 year old at the time so I was too chicken shit to tell him I liked him. I think I was also worried long distance would damage our relationship if we were to date (even though it may have anyway). Basically, we never had a real shot at dating and now that I am back home for the summer, this has recently popped into my mind. I want to reach out and see how he’s doing, but I also understand this would be incredibly disrespectful to my relationship. Is my brain just grasping onto memories and emotions I had as a teenager? Or am I romanticizing a “could’ve-been” situation? I just want to clarify that I have NEVER thought about cheating. Ever. Never have and never will so please don’t think I will be cheating on my boyfriend.

I just need some advice because I don’t feel comfortable telling my mom or friends about this and don’t want this to ruin how my support system feels around my boyfriend.

Please be kind, thank you.

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u/Sea_Source_7593 — 9 days ago

I 21F have been with my boyfriend 21M for two years, but lately I’ve been thinking he isn’t the person I want to marry. His sarcasm and constant wanting to bicker leaves me feeling frustrated and I don’t want to feel this way for the rest of my life. I do love for him, but I worry we have just grown into different people. I have thought about talking through my feelings with him so we maintain transparency and honesty in our relationship, but conversations like this end with him crying, begging me to never leave him, or telling me I can never leave him. I just don’t want to go through that process again but I feel bad for holding this back. I just feel like he can’t handle conversations like this. The main problem is that we have been living together for the last year and will be living together again next year in a dorm at college. If we were to break up, that would complicate the living situation. Not to mention, I’m currently storing dorm stuff at his parent’s house since I live out of state from where we go to college and he is in state.

While I want to fight and make this work, I also have been thinking about a person I used to “talk to” right before my boyfriend and I started getting to know each other and dating. We used to facetime into late hours of the night while I was away at college and tell each other everything with what we called “storytimes”. Hanging out with him felt easy but also exciting. The banter through text made me giddy with butterflies. We did this for probably 4-5 months before all of a sudden we stopped talking. I don’t remember if it what my fault or his but then I got caught up in my current boyfriend making efforts to get to know me and found myself really liking him.

When thinking about my current relationship, I don’t feel those butterflies anymore. We don’t banter with each other and if I try to, he takes it the wrong way and I have to explain it to him and I end up feeling frustrated. I don’t know if you’re always supposed to feel “butterflies” in a relationship or if that’s just something I have held on to from reading fiction. Is it just that I am comfortable with him and because we are past the newness of our relationship?

With this other guy I have been thinking about, I knew I liked him all those years ago, but we never talked about our feelings so I don’t really know if he liked me back or not. I have a feeling he did though because I saw some of his friends at a new year’s party during that time and they kept asking me what my intentions were with him. I was just a dumb 18 year old at the time so I was too chicken shit to tell him I liked him. I think I was also worried long distance would damage our relationship if we were to date (even though it may have anyway). Basically, we never had a real shot at dating and now that I am back home for the summer, this has recently popped into my mind. I want to reach out and see how he’s doing, but I also understand this would be incredibly disrespectful to my relationship. Is my brain just grasping onto memories and emotions I had as a teenager? Or am I romanticizing a “could’ve-been” situation? I just want to clarify that I have NEVER thought about cheating. Ever. Never have and never will so please don’t think I will be cheating on my boyfriend.

I just need some advice because I don’t feel comfortable telling my mom or friends about this and don’t want this to ruin how my support system feels around my boyfriend.

Please be kind, thank you.

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u/Sea_Source_7593 — 10 days ago