Not just in Yandere but any manhwa or graphic novels, when things start to get spicy, the female ALWAYS says “Wait!”
Every freaking time. Literally. And idk why but it kind of annoys me. lol 😂 like say anything else? Why do the authors make that like their go-to phrase?
When I hear other moms discuss their Mother’s Day plans etc. I can’t help but feel a bit envious. How wonderful it must be to be appreciated not only all year, but their husbands make sure to plan something wonderful for the actual “Mother’s Day”. I’m happy for them, truly. I would never take a shit on someone’s happiness just because I’m a little jealous. I don’t want extravagant gifts or a pricey meal to a place I don’t even have nice enough clothes to wear to. Just time spent, and recognition. A simple treat. Effort. Just effort. I’m just venting. I’ll be alright, I’ll make today special even if I’m the one doing it. I hope everyone has the best Mother’s Day ☺️✨
I’ve been suffering with a constant UTI for 7 years. I’ve been on every antibiotic known to man. I’ve seen probably a dozen doctors and specialists. I’ve had 2 surgeries to remove stones from my kidneys, with another on May 18th. I’ve had quite literally hundreds of urinalysis’, tests, scans, whatever. And absolutely nothing is getting rid of or killing the Klebsiella. And I’m so beyond fed up with it. It’s slowly taken over my life and my health is in tatters. It’s caused new issues I never dealt with before… and don’t get me started on the pain. My kidneys are always inflamed. I was supposed to have surgery on April 29th to remove a stent. And they couldn’t because my WBC count was too high. I explained to them that it will be next to impossible to get it completely lowered. I tried explaining how it’s been such a constant issue and I kept getting brushed off “Nah, we’ll get it cleared up so we can do the surgery”. Blah blah blah. So if they can’t do it on the 18th (again). I have a big fat I TOLD YOU SO. For them. Anyways… that’s my vent. lol
Has anyone ever experienced the delayed hives rash reaction from taking amox-clav? For context I finished antibiotics a few days ago and at 4 AM this morning I woke up out of dead sleep too extremely itchy arms and I went to the bathroom to look, and I had raised welts all over my arms. They were not red though.Skin colored. And now this morning five hours later, it’s like my skin is tight and hot and it kind of stings when I move my hands around a lot and I’m starting to feel itchiness and on other place of my body. The tops of my feet and under my lips/chin? It’s all over my hands and forearms. But that’s it’s it’s so weird.. no fever though. Does this sound familiar to anyone? I took cetirizine already. I haven’t eaten anything strange, nor touched any suspicious looking plants outside. Everywhere my hands touch (like the steering wheel), I get more welts where I touch something. It’s super weird. Kinda hurts?
I’ve been sober since 2015, but lately I’ve been having strong urges. I don’t hang out with or talk to people that aren’t living a sober life. It’s not a constant feeling but damn the urges are so strong. The only thing stopping me is my kids, and the fact that I don’t wanna throw away 11 sober years.
Edit: it’s so refreshing to receive such support on a Reddit post. Ive grown so used to the negative comments or trolls. (On other pages). Thank you all for your kindness ☺️✨
TMI- Has anyone experienced yeast smell in their BM’s when taking Amoxicillin-Clav? I’m on it for a Klebsiella UTI. And wow, this is new for me. I felt so disgusted. 🤢 now I’m looking online for like anti fungal cream or something because my crack stings so badly.
For context, I have 3 autoimmune diseases, and as of December 2025 kidney issues now. Back to back issues, back to back infections, hospitalizations, and surgeries. It’s so exhausting. I’m a mom and the primary caregiver to my children and also the house. I have no secondary support beyond my husband but the man works 16hr days and only has 4 days off a month. I’ve had health issues starting at age 12 until now. I haven’t truly known a moments peace where I’m not sick, weak, recovering, or dealing with surgeries etc. I’ve had this stent in since March 30th. And it’s been nothing but pain since then. The stent was placed during PCNL surgery. I had an appointment at the hospital last Wednesday to get the stent removed and to do a final clean out of my kidney and I was hoping after that point I would be done with urinary problems for a while. But because my white blood cell count was too high they wouldn’t even operate and sent me home five hours later. I know it’s only been a few days but I’m starting to wonder if or when they will ever call me to reschedule the surgery I really just want this to be over with so I can try to return to some sense of normal. as it stands right now, I have to go pee pretty much all the time and I can’t fully empty my bladder unless I lean and tilt my hips over to the left side of the toilet seat and it takes a long time to get things going. I’m on antibiotics right now too and antibiotics always make me feel really sick.
I picked up my 6yr old kiddo from school and it wasn’t until we were nearly home that he said “someone hurt my eye today” and I’m like WHAT. I look and sure enough. He has a cut and a bruise all the way around his right eye. It’s definitely going to be a black eye. And no one thought to call me, email me, or tell me at the pick up line. No incident report made. Nothing! Even if it was an accident from playing they dropped the ball and didn’t inform a parent. Especially about a facial injury. What if his eye was hurt even worse? Requiring medical care? The eyes are so sensitive. They should have called me… that’s so messed up.
Parents of children on the spectrum, how do you handle being in public? I have an older neurotypical child (6), and he misses going places like the zoo, park, indoor playground etc. and I try to make sure we go when we can. But the entire drive to said place, I’m riddled with anxiety because my youngest is so unpredictable in public. I feel “safer” at home. I’m having a hard time coping with being in public with him. I never know what he wants and I feel the stares when he has his screaming episodes. But it feels unfair towards my oldest if we opt to stay home just to make things “easier” with my youngest. It’s really hard.. and I have to go do all this alone. My husband is never home because of work. And we have zero support from family because they live so far away. I don’t have any friends. No one. What are ways you handle being in public with your little one? I forgot to mention I also have Crohn’s disease so I don’t like being somewhere without a bathroom. lol
I’m not sure what changes happened to cause this but recently my husband has been quick to snap at me. Calling me derogatory names. Cussing, yelling. Just so angry. Whenever he does something “nice” for me he says “I only did *this* because I don’t want to hear you complain”. My “complaint”? Being hungry, or being tired, or being in pain/sick. Yesterday on the way to taking my son to baseball practice, I unknowingly interrupted him trying to talk. He told me so, and I said “then say it”. And I was met with “fuck YOU bitch!” And I fought back tears the whole time in the car. It still hurt my feelings. We might have arguments or raise a voice but I’ve never called him any names. And him doing it to me is so incredibly hurtful. It broke my
heart. :( thanks for reading my vent post.
Today was my son’s 2yr well child exam. The pediatrician said he failed the autism screening. And to be honest I was kind of expecting that. I have college education in early childhood development and I saw the signs long ago. I was simply in denial because I’m his mom and I’m biased. He will start speech and feeding/food therapy soon. I’m high functioning autistic myself, and so is my father. My oldest son has ADHD. We’re all a mess here lol but anyways. Just wanted to say hi and introduce myself kinda. :)
UPDATE BELOW: I have a surgery tomorrow to clean out my kidney from PCNL a month ago and take the stent out. I was called at 4:30pm today to tell me that they called in antibiotics for an infection I apparently tested positive for over a week ago! And then not an hour later the doctor doing my surgery calls and says if the infection isn’t cleared up “enough” to do the surgery they will cancel it and reschedule it. They have put it off long enough now. This was supposed to have been done weeks ago. My urologist clinic is a nightmare. So besides the antibiotics is there anything I can do to clear my infection up “enough”? I really need this stent out. I’m desperate.
Update: I sat in the hospital room for 5 hrs while they debated on doing my surgery or not. I was sent home. No surgery. My infection was too bad to do surgery. I’m devastated. I really needed this surgery to happen. But I just pray they get the surgery rescheduled to a date that’s not too far away from now. I only have 11 tablets of antibiotics left. And from past experience, the UTI always returns shortly after finishing them.
Klebsiella
I’ve been testing positive for klebsiella UTI literally every single time since 2019. Recurrent UTI’s back to back this entire time. I have been prescribed every antibiotic known to man. It never goes away. I’ve recently had PCNL to remove a 4cm staghorn stone and 9mm stone. Left kidney is stone free. They did another culture after a few weeks from the surgery and it still tests positive. I was hopeful that the stones being removed would’ve solved the problem.. now I fear it will never go away. I’m so tired of being sick and having these problems. I have three chronic illnesses and I really just don’t need these issues right now. :(