M28
Currently in a poly relationship.
I have a primary partner — but to me, love is not a limited resource.
For me, long-term doesn’t mean “forever at any cost.”
It means consciously sharing the time fate gives us.
Regularly spending time together, showing genuine interest, and staying open to wherever things may grow.
I feel deeply — and I like investing more than just “spare time” into people.
It hurts when people only see my struggles.
I’m more than a diagnosis.
I can carry a lot — but I don’t want to carry everything alone.
I’m not looking for someone to “fix” or therapize me —
just someone who listens when I need to vent.
And I want to be that kind of person for you too.
My inner child is very much alive:
animals, nature, learning new things, gaming, nerdy collecting hobbies.
I wouldn’t give any of it up just to seem more appealing.
Authenticity matters more to me than fitting in.
Soundtrack of my life:
90s/2000s music (especially punk rock), but also techno, metal, and everything in between.
Podcasts are constantly playing — true crime, random conversations, educational stuff.
I like keeping my mind busy.
Humor? Dry, dark, goofy, sarcastic — depends on the day.
And this tiny vampire poem has been living rent-free in my head for years:
Blood is good.
Light is not.
I’m looking for a connection where both people feel
safe, comforted, loved, noticed, and truly seen.
Nothing should feel “too big” or “too small” to talk about.
Maybe you’re looking — like I am —
not for a perfect story,
but for an honest one.
If so, maybe our paths are crossing right now.