u/Regular-Extension325

Me 24f and my ex 25m used to live together. He hasnt lived with me for a year now and since then ive had his 3 cats ive been looking after. Plus my 2 cats and my dog and our child. I have told him next month he needs to take his pets because I dont want them here anymore. He doesnt live here he has his own home. He doesnt talk to me throughout the week at all only comes Friday to Sunday to see his child and pets and that's it. So I told him he has to take them. He is saying im being very selfish and controlling. That theres mold in his flat that will kill his cats and that he has been waiting for the council to fix it. But he never chases them up he books an appointment then never contacts them again. When I tell him to chase it he just says theres no point and no. There's no flooring in his flat either and he has a bedsit so it wouldn't be expensive at all to do but hes saying hes been too busy with other things.

I dont know what to do because I dont want his 3 cats with me anymore. They're much more hyper than mine and they keep scratching our child too because they're trying to play but aren't calm like my two cats. Whenever I bring it up for him to take them he says im completely unfair and selfish ans im not being an adult at all about any of this and just forcing him to do something that he doesnt want to do yet and basically sending his cats to die because of the mold.

Any advice id appreciate thank you.

We have been together 6 years, 7 this year and we have a 3 year old child together. We was watching a Netflix show when the topic of marriage came up. He knows I want to marry. Ive spoken about doing ir at our church that we go to. But suddenly hes acting like he doesnt want to, I asked him does he not want to marry and he said i didnt need to know that ans its not important in his life. And then started saying how actually the names Mrs and all that came from slavery times so its just bad. I started saying well actually its really important to me. Making that promise in front of God to commit to each other 100% with his blessing. Its important to me. He disagreed and said that its not important, its not a life accomplishment and this and that. Now I wouldn't be so shocked but he proposed to me 4 years ago and so I was under the impression that actually we were going to get married but I guess he just wanted me as a fiance forever. Im confused on what to do. My next steps forward. I told him I dont want to be with someone who doesnt want to marry as its also important for my faith not just the commitment I make with a partner.

Any advice would be helpful.

Thank you.

Ive never been clubbing before and im planning on going for mt 24th birthday but i dont know what girls wear to go and I dont want to be doing too much and embarrassing myself

As the title says i want to know from people who have cheated, is it true or can you work on yourself and change? How did you do it?

So im going clubbing for the first time and I was planning on going around 11pm on a Saturday but my friends are telling me that's way too late to be going and I should go for 9pm instead. So I was just wondering what's the best time to go for it to be busy but not packed, also what's your favourite night club to go to? I was thinking of going to Popworld in Birmingham.

Thanks 😊

I really want to get this dress for my birthday but ive been trying to find photos of people wearing it so I can see it more clearly and better and also want to know how it feels wearing it, what bra or no bra did you use and what shoes would match it? What about accessories or a bag? I have no idea what im doing and dont want to make a fool out of myself.

This is going to be my first night going out clubbing ever and I feel even more self conscious because I have my child 2 years ago but I really want to go for it so any advice id appreciate thank you. I have left the name of the dress at the bottom.

Lunetta

Embellished Scoop-Neck Bodycon Mini Dress in Pink