u/Reasonable_Mouse789

I tend to assume guys who say things like ”dating gets better after 30” are probably not attractive to their partners and that they were likely settled for, but maybe I’m mistaken. Are these relationships enthusiastic? I’m guessing in the modern age that the guy dated whoever he’s talking about for a month before sleeping with her via online dating. To me this registers as a complete lack of interest, but can it work out? How do you perceive these relationships?

A lot of young people are pretty jaded about “love” these days. Kids that grow up with online dating & how people behave at big party colleges will probably not entirely mesh well with the concept of a stable 60 year marriage. Guys who say things like “dating gets better after 30” feels less like a reassurance, and more like a guy admitting that his wife is grossed out by him (she would’ve been interested in him before age 30 if he was actually attractive to her). House prices are going up like crazy, and the concept of supporting kids is more of a “luxury good” where people would likely just rather go out and have some fun instead.

Young “shallow” women tend to consider a guy who is 8” taller and a bit more attractive than them their minimum. Dating apps like Tinder make guys very available to them.

Every red pill statement or blue pill cope I‘ve ever heard feels like the confession of a cuck.

- ”Dating gets better when you’re 30”. Oof. That guy was settled for.

- ”Women are attracted to money”. Ouch. That guy was settled for.

- “Women love personality!”. Idk, I don’t think women who took more than 1 date off the internet to kiss me or sleep with me were actually interested. They sort of just want good first date etiquette. Mention they’re beautiful, and then after the date in your car tell them you want to kiss them or something. If it leads to making out & sex on the first or second date, then that’s great.

- “Look at her gazing at Chad!”. Chad is her fucking minimum. The lowest possible guy on her dating app settings that she’ll consider talking to. A guy that’s 8” taller and a bit more attractive than someone that gets gazed at a bit is the least attractive guy she’d probably enthusiastically talk to on Tinder or in real life.

- ”Women love guys at parties!”. The reason red pill guys think women are toxic is because they could only pull women more attractive than themselves at parties with alcohol. When those women sobered up they probably started treating the guy as if he were a match less attractive than them on Tinder.

- “Only ugly women go on dating apps”. False. A guy’s “maximum” on dating apps are probably around the week before Valentine’s Day.

- “These couples divorced after their kids moved out because of a sexless marriage!”. Women dislike a guy and start wanting more choreplay as their libido drops & they get older. To preserve a woman’s libido, it’s important for her to exercise, socialize, reduce stress, get sleep, shower daily, eat lean food, etc. Also, it’s important to maintain yourself (exercise) & spend quality time with women (go on dates similar to how you’d treat a new woman on Tinder) to maintain your relationship.

tl;dr: my lesson for you is to socialize with some young women you’re 8”+ taller than and hang out alone for a while (go on a date with her) with one that gazes at you a bit if you want a woman who’s actually attracted to you. I think most women will ”develop feelings” for a guy they’re attracted to within about 6 hours.

Every time I venture out into a new class, I run into the same problem: No one except the Vanguard or Bulwark can heal. I like the Vanguard the most for this reason, and utilize the Marksman on him.

Other classes feel similar to the “glass cannon” concept, with Tactical being the best glass cannon. Sniper is also fun to play, but my health gets chipped down over time until I’m scrambling to not get shot down in one hit while I’m aiming down a scope.

I think the reason women assume that guys must have terrible personalities if they struggle with dating is because if women are attracted to someone, then they don’t care about his bad habits at all, and will apply a massive halo effect.

However, unattractive guys repulse them so badly that their entire body sort of recoils when they look at them. I’m not sure how much women notice the difference in their body language towards attractive or unattractive guys, but the gaslighting about personality is insane because all guys know that women simply do not care at all.

I think when women write down what they’re attracted to, they have some sort of conforming empathy that drives them to virtue signal, when the reality is that for the majority of women, being a bit better looking than her and being nice to her for a few hours is about all it takes.

One example is the Tea app or social media pages for Are We Dating The Same Guy. Attractive guys will get weird, unwanted attention on these pages. Any abuse or illegal actions they commit will always be given a halo effect. On the other hand, unattractive guys will probably be put up on the site and called a red flag just for existing. It’s essentially similar to high school bullying at this point. Since we know ahead of time women aren’t going to care if the hot guys are abusive or cheaters, and unattractive guys are going to be called creeps for initiating a kiss, it feels useless to have these boards exist

Similar goes for women ranting on social media to not sleep with conservatives. We know what they really mean is unattractive conservatives. They won’t know the political leanings of guys they sleep with within 30 minutes of meeting off an app.

I’m not entirely clear on how dating works, but the hierarchy of guys seems to be:

- S tier: Celebrities. Guys who have so many options that “normal people” can’t comprehend their dating lives

- A tier: Athletes. Women always want the fit guy that can throw a ball and make friends with people. Known athletes at colleges get stalked for sex by their fans

- B tier: Tinder Giga Chad. He gets invited to desirable women’s houses online without saying anything to them or sending a first message

- C tier: People who only need to hang out with women once to sleep with them. Often blue pilled “normies”. Personally, I’ve never waited longer than 6 hours to sleep with someone. I believe something along the lines of being 8” taller & a bit more facially attractive than a woman can consistently get you this treatment (basically just be a bit better looking than someone). Practically any guy that has to speak to desirable women at colleges for 30+ minutes to sleep with them is C tier or below.

D tier: Guys who wait a month for sex. I nearly don’t believe that the women they’re talking to are actually interested in them at all. Again, I don’t think it has ever taken more than 6 hours in person for me to sleep with someone who was actually interested in me

F tier: True incels who can’t even sleep around with obese women