Critical stepmothers
I don't have experience with stepfathers but I had a stepmother while growing up, and I remember she complained constantly about me to my dad. It was always piddly stuff, like I was messy, clumsy, etc. Basically, I was a kid being a kid.
I have another stepmother now as an adult and she complains a lot about my half brother. She says that he's impersonal, rude, and makes a big deal when he shows up a few minutes late for family dinners.
My mom is a lesbian and I overheard her wife (yet another stepmother) complain about me not helping them enough. She also makes a big deal about me showing up a few minutes late to family dinners. She's also frequently snarky and passive aggressive.
Sound familiar? I wonder why so many stepmothers are like that.