What career path can I choose and pursue that’s genuinely STRONG can help me keep financially stable and will go longterm . My career in Esthetics was useless and fatal I had no job in that field the job market sucks. I am an introvert w basic social skills always willing to learn, alight w team work, I am in my early 20s willing to work hard. Open to thoughts and suggestions either in tech or anything😊
What career path can I choose and pursue that’s genuinely STRONG can help me keep financially stable and will go longterm . My career in Esthetics was useless and fatal I had no job in that field the job market sucks. I am an introvert w basic social skills always willing to learn, alight w team work, I am in my early 20s willing to work hard. Open to thoughts and suggestions
What career path can I choose and pursue that’s genuinely STRONG can help me keep financially stable and will go longterm . My career in Esthetics was useless and fatal I had no job in that field the job market sucks. I am an introvert w basic social skills always willing to learn, alight w team work, I am in my early 20s willing to work hard. Open to thoughts and suggestions
What career path can I choose and pursue that’s genuinely STRONG can help me keep financially stable and will go longterm . My career in Esthetics was useless and fatal I had no job in that field the job market sucks. I am an introvert w basic social skills always willing to learn, alight w team work, I am in my early 20s willing to work hard. Open to thoughts and suggestions
Is hairstyling genuinely worth it I just want a stable career and good financial income I can rely on I am introverted w basic social skills. Is it worth to prepare for hairstyling course? Feel free to share😊
I’m honestly so frustrated and mentally drained from my job.
I’m a 20-year-old female working as a hostess, and I’ve been here for a year now. The last 6 months have really messed with my mental health. I get panic, chest tightness, and I overthink every single interaction all day. Even small things like someone’s tone affect me way more than they should.
The main issue for me is learning how to lead and communicate effectively. I struggle to ask for things clearly, guide servers, and stay grounded when people come at me with attitude. I know I need to make strong eye contact, stay confident, and not let their reactions affect me—but it’s so hard in the moment.
Most of the time, I end up doing everything myself—walking quickly, cleaning dishes, seating customers—because other hostesses and servers are “too busy” when I ask for help. And then they assume my quick pace means I’m panicky, which just adds to the frustration.
I also struggle with English as my second language, so communicating clearly and quickly under pressure is even harder. I wish I could just stay calm, assertive, and in control without overthinking every interaction.
I’ve realized I care way too much about how coworkers react. I’m constantly reading their tone, expressions, and mood like I’m supposed to be a mind reader. It’s exhausting and makes everything worse.
I wish I could just do my job, stay grounded, and not let anyone else’s attitude affect me.
Has anyone else worked as a hostess and struggled with leadership, communication, and staying confident under pressure? How did you build that skill and stop caring too much about everyone else’s reactions?
I’m honestly so frustrated and mentally drained from my job.
I’m a 20-year-old female working as a hostess, and I’ve been here for a year now. The last 6 months have really messed with my mental health. I get panic, chest tightness, and I overthink every single interaction all day. Even small things like someone’s tone affect me way more than they should.
The main issue for me is learning how to lead and communicate effectively. I struggle to ask for things clearly, guide servers, and stay grounded when people come at me with attitude. I know I need to make strong eye contact, stay confident, and not let their reactions affect me—but it’s so hard in the moment.
Most of the time, I end up doing everything myself—walking quickly, cleaning dishes, seating customers—because other hostesses and servers are “too busy” when I ask for help. And then they assume my quick pace means I’m panicky, which just adds to the frustration.
I also struggle with English as my second language, so communicating clearly and quickly under pressure is even harder. I wish I could just stay calm, assertive, and in control without overthinking every interaction.
I’ve realized I care way too much about how coworkers react. I’m constantly reading their tone, expressions, and mood like I’m supposed to be a mind reader. It’s exhausting and makes everything worse.
I wish I could just do my job, stay grounded, and not let anyone else’s attitude affect me.
Has anyone else worked as a hostess and struggled with leadership, communication, and staying confident under pressure? How did you build that skill and stop caring too much about everyone else’s reactions?