Did my 54yr old coworker ask me out?
I am 32. He has been always flirty, sometimes dropped worrisome jokes such as he is in love with me and but he never made a move and he even offered me to help finding a boyfriend (and even offered this son who is 25?!) so I thought its just his personality.
I live in a foreign country and we were discussing about how fun it is go to cinema and how I can not do it here because I prefer to have my own language’s subtitles while watching a movie. This conversation came up 3-4 times and everytime he said I do not need the subtitles and I was giving my arguments back.
This week I said to him that I have been to a date and I will discover further. He got kind of a low energy, asked some questions about it, he also said he was on a date and it was good and they have things in common. I have said to him “nice, sounds promising, I am happy for you” and he said “take it easy no rush” blabla.
Then he immediately continued “so when are we going to cinema? But you cant go to cinema (mentioning the subtitle)?” I joked “I can go but then you would be too tired of me as I would ask all the parts that I dont understand” and wanted to slip it. He insisted I could understand, he asked me to give it a try, he showed me where to go and he sent me an agenda to pick a movie.
Is this a date or what????