Is this considered cheating
I (18F)found out my boyfriend(19M) subscribed to 13 girls on OnlyFans. I saw messages of him flirting with them, and the girls were sending explicit pictures/videos back. What hurts even more is that he once told me if I ever made an OnlyFans account, he would break up with me immediately.
He’s currently away at AIT for the military, so I have to wait until Friday to confront him in person. I talked to his mom about it because I honestly feel shattered, and she told me it’s “not cheating” and that he loves me so much. But I genuinely feel betrayed and sick over this.
I love him a lot, but this completely broke my trust. I can’t stop thinking about the double standard and the fact that he hid this from me while acting like it would be unacceptable if the roles were reversed.
Am I overreacting? What would you do in this situation?