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Hi everyone. I’ll call myself X. I am a (25M) guy, currently in the final stages of my graduation. I’m really worried about my life, especially about who my future life partner will be. I couldn’t find any other platform to share this. I apparently made this Reddit account 4 years ago but have no memory of it; I just logged in through Google recently and realized it was already there.

​I’m not writing this to trap anyone or play with anyone's emotions. I know reading this might take up a lot of your time, and I truly value your time. But if you do read this, please leave your thoughts in the comments.I’d be forever grateful. And please let me know how I can solve my problem. Dear brothers and sisters, I am not playing with your emotions, and this isn’t a fake story. Please believe me.

#​My Background & School Life:

I grew up pretty lonely. In kindergarten, a lot of female classmates wanted to talk to me and play with me, but I was extremely shy. I kept my distance from girls right from the start. I used to go to school and come back with my grandma. During the tiffin break, she would feed me, and I would always run straight to her. That’s how I passed 5th grade.

​In high school, I only had one or two neighborhood guys I’d commute with. We weren't emotionally close, and we have no contact now, they are busy with their lives, and I am busy with my studies. During high school coaching classes, we had a small batch of 8-10 students. There was this one girl who used to call me "Darling" and "Baby" in front of everyone. She’d even blow flying kisses at me in front of the teacher. I thought she was just messing around, but she was actually really bold. When my SSC results came out, she even texted my mom’s phone to let me know my result.

​(A quick context on why she had my mom's phone: In 9th class, a coaching teacher hit me with a wooden stick, so I left and got a private tutor instead. Because of that, my phone access was limited, and she texted my mom's number).

​She lived in my area, but I was easily scared and never had the courage to say anything to her. I just treated her as a classmate. When we started college, our contact completely stopped. I never tried to reach out or go to her house because I didn't mix with girls anyway. Maybe her mom changed her phone number. We never had a fight or a bad relationship. I am only mentioning this story because I want my future partner to know absolutely everything about me.

2#​College & Varsity Life:

When I started college, I made some new friends, but I realized that without self-interest, many friends don't keep in touch. I had a trusted school friend of 4 years who completely stopped talking to me after school ended. The same happened with my 3-4 college friends. I always try my best to keep friendships alive. I am always the one sending the last message. It has never happened that someone messaged me and I didn't reply.

​During college, I continued to stay far away from girls. I kept myself completely detached from Facebook, WhatsApp, or any conversations with them. No girl from my college can ever say I looked at her; when I walk down the street, I keep my gaze lowered.

​When my university life started, I made two male friends, and our bond is still good, though I don't know how long it will last. I also have a couple of senior university brothers who guide me well in real life. Other than them, my parents and my younger siblings are my only true close ones.

​In university, people naturally add each other on Facebook regardless of gender. But I never accepted requests from girls. You might wonder how I managed my academic updates!! I used to get all the information from a male friend who was in the messenger groups. I used to be in those groups initially but left later. Many girls from my department would send me message requests asking for assignment help or info about teachers, because I am close with the teachers. But I never accepted those requests. I know that if I do, a conversation will start. I want to stay 100% loyal to my future partner. I have saved all my feelings in my heart just for that one person. I also rarely post pictures on Facebook; I prefer enjoying the real world.

3#​The Core Issue:

Now, let me explain the title of this post. I’ve seen both arranged marriages and love marriages. I try to be an honest person in every aspect of life. Everything I’ve written above is 100% true. You can even come into my real life and verify it.

​Everyone develops feelings of love, whether they express it or not. As a human, I have feelings too. No matter how much I stay away from girls, my dream is to reach my "Dream Girl." But my main problem is: I literally cannot talk to girls.

​They say "Don't judge a book by its cover," but in my experience, I can read 70-80% of a person just by looking at their face and behavior. Whenever I see a girl who is exactly my "type", a weird feeling takes over me. I wish I could just tell her how I feel. But then my brain immediately thinks, "What if she assumes I do this with every girl?" I fear she will think I'm a bad person. Because of that fear, I never initiate. Everyone in my area knows me as a polite, decent guy. Sometimes girls hold eye contact with me for a long time, but I drop my gaze. I just feel shy and scared.

​There have been so many chances where I saw my type of girl, and they responded positively, but I just couldn't speak. I don't know how to start? I don't know if this is a good trait or a bad one. If I keep being like this, I will never find my dream girl.

​I’ve watched social experiments and even taken advice from AI, but I still can't talk. Can someone explain what is wrong with me? How do I get my dream girl? I am completely lost. Going through life completely alone without a relationship is incredibly painful. Only someone who doesn't have a person to share their heart with will understand this pain. I can't even explain my sadness.

​Believe me, I am crazy about my dream girl. I constantly dream about her. I wonder what she's doing, and if she's thinking about me too. She can't even imagine how many dreams I weave about her. I will love her so, so much.

​I don't know what girls look for in a guy. But trust me, I have a pure heart. A person's wealth doesn't matter to me; human emotions are invaluable and can never be bought. I despise "Gold Diggers", families or girls who judge a guy based on his money. I have immense, genuine respect for someone who will love me (or marry their daughter to me) for my emotions, loyalty, honesty, politeness, and care. If someone loves me just for my money, I will always view them as greedy, no matter how much outward respect I show.

​How do I achieve my dream girl? Can someone please tell me?

4# ​What My Dream Girl Looks Like:

I want a girl who understands me, and I will understand her. She must be loyal. I want her to be kind, helpful, and compassionate to others. She must share everything with me and hide nothing so that she feels I am her mirror. She must trust me.

​She shouldn't have any male friends, and honestly, no "best friend" either, I will be her best friend, and she will be mine. We will complete each other.

​**Physical & Personal Traits:** She must have an innocent look. Her height should be similar to mine (I am 5'5"). Weight should be between 64-67 kg. Her body type should be Hourglass. She should have wavy hair, which is my absolute favorite. She must be very conscious about her health, diet, and hygiene. Above all, she must have an "Omega Personality." She needs to be confident and follow basic religious principles.

5#What I Will Do For Her:

I will listen to whatever she says, as long as it is valid and moral. I will do whatever it takes to keep her happy. I will try to fulfill all her hobbies. I will be 100% loyal to her. I won't talk to any other girls (I currently have zero contact with any anyway). I want to be her only love.

​No matter how busy I am, I will always check up on her. I won't do anything without her permission. I will text her minute-by-minute updates of what I am doing. I will give her ALL my social media accounts so she never ever doubts me. I will be loyal, trusted, and take immense care of her. I will respect her deeply and be obedient to her. I will look after her health and pay attention to every little detail. I won't ever let her be sad. I will give her full emotional support and do whatever it takes to keep her confident. I will help her with all her chores and never let her do anything that causes her pain. I will only love her. Only her...

6#​About Me:

I deeply respect people, whether I know them or not. I always try to help others. Anyone who knows me will tell you this. I respect women immensely.

​I am very conscious about my health. I follow a regular diet and try to work out regularly. Due to study pressure, I don't have time for sports, so I do morning runs and bodyweight exercises. I eat healthy, avoid junk food, don't smoke, and don't drink. I try to stay well-dressed.

​**Physical traits:** I am 5'5". My body type is a slight Mesomorph (I don't do heavy lifting, so I won't call it full Mesomorph). I am very career-oriented and actively working on my future.

7#​My Request🙏

If you have read this far, I hope you understand my situation. To the girl who match my type and read this: What kind of guys do you like? How should I approach or talk to you?

​If there is anyone out there who matches my description and wants to connect, please let me know. I will directly contact your parents. I will not waste your time or play with your emotions.

Also, if any parents, siblings, uncles, or aunts are reading this and think I’d be a good match for someone in your family, please DM me without hesitation. I will be eternally grateful to you. I am not a scammer, and you can verify me in real life.

​To the older, more experienced people here: Please give me some advice. Please don't misunderstand me or curse at me in the comments. I am just pouring my feelings out to you all.

​If you read this, please leave an upvote so the post reaches more people. If possible, share your thoughts in the comments or share this post. I am extremely sorry for taking up your valuable time, but thank you so much. ✍️

Hi everyone. I’ll call myself X. I am a (25M) guy, currently in the final stages of my graduation. I’m really worried about my life, especially about who my future life partner will be. I couldn’t find any other platform to share this. I apparently made this Reddit account 4 years ago but have no memory of it; I just logged in through Google recently and realized it was already there.

​I’m not writing this to trap anyone or play with anyone's emotions. I know reading this might take up a lot of your time, and I truly value your time. But if you do read this, please leave your thoughts in the comments.I’d be forever grateful. And please let me know how I can solve my problem. Dear brothers and sisters, I am not playing with your emotions, and this isn’t a fake story. Please believe me.

# 1#​My Background & School Life:

I grew up pretty lonely. In kindergarten, a lot of female classmates wanted to talk to me and play with me, but I was extremely shy. I kept my distance from girls right from the start. I used to go to school and come back with my grandma. During the tiffin break, she would feed me, and I would always run straight to her. That’s how I passed 5th grade.

​In high school, I only had one or two neighborhood guys I’d commute with. We weren't emotionally close, and we have no contact now, they are busy with their lives, and I am busy with my studies. During high school coaching classes, we had a small batch of 8-10 students. There was this one girl who used to call me "Darling" and "Baby" in front of everyone. She’d even blow flying kisses at me in front of the teacher. I thought she was just messing around, but she was actually really bold. When my SSC results came out, she even texted my mom’s phone to let me know my result.

​(A quick context on why she had my mom's phone: In 9th class, a coaching teacher hit me with a wooden stick, so I left and got a private tutor instead. Because of that, my phone access was limited, and she texted my mom's number).

​She lived in my area, but I was easily scared and never had the courage to say anything to her. I just treated her as a classmate. When we started college, our contact completely stopped. I never tried to reach out or go to her house because I didn't mix with girls anyway. Maybe her mom changed her phone number. We never had a fight or a bad relationship. I am only mentioning this story because I want my future partner to know absolutely everything about me.

# 2#​College & Varsity Life:

When I started college, I made some new friends, but I realized that without self-interest, many friends don't keep in touch. I had a trusted school friend of 4 years who completely stopped talking to me after school ended. The same happened with my 3-4 college friends. I always try my best to keep friendships alive. I am always the one sending the last message. It has never happened that someone messaged me and I didn't reply.

​During college, I continued to stay far away from girls. I kept myself completely detached from Facebook, WhatsApp, or any conversations with them. No girl from my college can ever say I looked at her; when I walk down the street, I keep my gaze lowered.

​When my university life started, I made two male friends, and our bond is still good, though I don't know how long it will last. I also have a couple of senior university brothers who guide me well in real life. Other than them, my parents and my younger siblings are my only true close ones.

​In university, people naturally add each other on Facebook regardless of gender. But I never accepted requests from girls. You might wonder how I managed my academic updates!! I used to get all the information from a male friend who was in the messenger groups. I used to be in those groups initially but left later. Many girls from my department would send me message requests asking for assignment help or info about teachers, because I am close with the teachers. But I never accepted those requests. I know that if I do, a conversation will start. I want to stay 100% loyal to my future partner. I have saved all my feelings in my heart just for that one person. I also rarely post pictures on Facebook; I prefer enjoying the real world.

# 3#​The Core Issue:

Now, let me explain the title of this post. I’ve seen both arranged marriages and love marriages. I try to be an honest person in every aspect of life. Everything I’ve written above is 100% true. You can even come into my real life and verify it.

​Everyone develops feelings of love, whether they express it or not. As a human, I have feelings too. No matter how much I stay away from girls, my dream is to reach my "Dream Girl." But my main problem is: I literally cannot talk to girls.

​They say "Don't judge a book by its cover," but in my experience, I can read 70-80% of a person just by looking at their face and behavior. Whenever I see a girl who is exactly my "type", a weird feeling takes over me. I wish I could just tell her how I feel. But then my brain immediately thinks, "What if she assumes I do this with every girl?" I fear she will think I'm a bad person. Because of that fear, I never initiate. Everyone in my area knows me as a polite, decent guy. Sometimes girls hold eye contact with me for a long time, but I drop my gaze. I just feel shy and scared.

​There have been so many chances where I saw my type of girl, and they responded positively, but I just couldn't speak. I don't know how to start? I don't know if this is a good trait or a bad one. If I keep being like this, I will never find my dream girl.

​I’ve watched social experiments and even taken advice from AI, but I still can't talk. Can someone explain what is wrong with me? How do I get my dream girl? I am completely lost. Going through life completely alone without a relationship is incredibly painful. Only someone who doesn't have a person to share their heart with will understand this pain. I can't even explain my sadness.

​Believe me, I am crazy about my dream girl. I constantly dream about her. I wonder what she's doing, and if she's thinking about me too. She can't even imagine how many dreams I weave about her. I will love her so, so much.

​I don't know what girls look for in a guy. But trust me, I have a pure heart. A person's wealth doesn't matter to me; human emotions are invaluable and can never be bought. I despise "Gold Diggers", families or girls who judge a guy based on his money. I have immense, genuine respect for someone who will love me (or marry their daughter to me) for my emotions, loyalty, honesty, politeness, and care. If someone loves me just for my money, I will always view them as greedy, no matter how much outward respect I show.

​How do I achieve my dream girl? Can someone please tell me?

# 4# ​What My Dream Girl Looks Like:

I want a girl who understands me, and I will understand her. She must be loyal. I want her to be kind, helpful, and compassionate to others. She must share everything with me and hide nothing so that she feels I am her mirror. She must trust me.

​She shouldn't have any male friends, and honestly, no "best friend" either, I will be her best friend, and she will be mine. We will complete each other.

​**Physical & Personal Traits:** She must have an innocent look. Her height should be similar to mine (I am 5'5"). Weight should be between 64-67 kg. Her body type should be Hourglass. She should have wavy hair, which is my absolute favorite. She must be very conscious about her health, diet, and hygiene. Above all, she must have an "Omega Personality." She needs to be confident and follow basic religious principles.

# 5#What I Will Do For Her:

I will listen to whatever she says, as long as it is valid and moral. I will do whatever it takes to keep her happy. I will try to fulfill all her hobbies. I will be 100% loyal to her. I won't talk to any other girls (I currently have zero contact with any anyway). I want to be her only love.

​No matter how busy I am, I will always check up on her. I won't do anything without her permission. I will text her minute-by-minute updates of what I am doing. I will give her ALL my social media accounts so she never ever doubts me. I will be loyal, trusted, and take immense care of her. I will respect her deeply and be obedient to her. I will look after her health and pay attention to every little detail. I won't ever let her be sad. I will give her full emotional support and do whatever it takes to keep her confident. I will help her with all her chores and never let her do anything that causes her pain. I will only love her. Only her...

# 6#​About Me:

I deeply respect people, whether I know them or not. I always try to help others. Anyone who knows me will tell you this. I respect women immensely.

​I am very conscious about my health. I follow a regular diet and try to work out regularly. Due to study pressure, I don't have time for sports, so I do morning runs and bodyweight exercises. I eat healthy, avoid junk food, don't smoke, and don't drink. I try to stay well-dressed.

​**Physical traits:** I am 5'5". My body type is a slight Mesomorph (I don't do heavy lifting, so I won't call it full Mesomorph). I am very career-oriented and actively working on my future.

# 7#​My Request🙏

If you have read this far, I hope you understand my situation. To the girl who match my type and read this: What kind of guys do you like? How should I approach or talk to you?

​If there is anyone out there who matches my description and wants to connect, please let me know. I will directly contact your parents. I will not waste your time or play with your emotions.

Also, if any parents, siblings, uncles, or aunts are reading this and think I’d be a good match for someone in your family, please DM me without hesitation. I will be eternally grateful to you. I am not a scammer, and you can verify me in real life.

​To the older, more experienced people here: Please give me some advice. Please don't misunderstand me or curse at me in the comments. I am just pouring my feelings out to you all.

​If you read this, please leave an upvote so the post reaches more people. If possible, share your thoughts in the comments or share this post. I am extremely sorry for taking up your valuable time, but thank you so much. ✍️

​

Hi everyone. I’ll call myself X. I am a (25M) guy, currently in the final stages of my graduation. I’m really worried about my life, especially about who my future life partner will be. I couldn’t find any other platform to share this. I apparently made this Reddit account 4 years ago but have no memory of it; I just logged in through Google recently and realized it was already there.

​I’m not writing this to trap anyone or play with anyone's emotions. I know reading this might take up a lot of your time, and I truly value your time. But if you do read this, please leave your thoughts in the comments.I’d be forever grateful. And please let me know how I can solve my problem. Dear brothers and sisters, I am not playing with your emotions, and this isn’t a fake story. Please believe me.

# 1#​My Background & School Life:

I grew up pretty lonely. In kindergarten, a lot of female classmates wanted to talk to me and play with me, but I was extremely shy. I kept my distance from girls right from the start. I used to go to school and come back with my grandma. During the tiffin break, she would feed me, and I would always run straight to her. That’s how I passed 5th grade.

​In high school, I only had one or two neighborhood guys I’d commute with. We weren't emotionally close, and we have no contact now, they are busy with their lives, and I am busy with my studies. During high school coaching classes, we had a small batch of 8-10 students. There was this one girl who used to call me "Darling" and "Baby" in front of everyone. She’d even blow flying kisses at me in front of the teacher. I thought she was just messing around, but she was actually really bold. When my SSC results came out, she even texted my mom’s phone to let me know my result.

​(A quick context on why she had my mom's phone: In 9th class, a coaching teacher hit me with a wooden stick, so I left and got a private tutor instead. Because of that, my phone access was limited, and she texted my mom's number).

​She lived in my area, but I was easily scared and never had the courage to say anything to her. I just treated her as a classmate. When we started college, our contact completely stopped. I never tried to reach out or go to her house because I didn't mix with girls anyway. Maybe her mom changed her phone number. We never had a fight or a bad relationship. I am only mentioning this story because I want my future partner to know absolutely everything about me.

# 2#​College & Varsity Life:

When I started college, I made some new friends, but I realized that without self-interest, many friends don't keep in touch. I had a trusted school friend of 4 years who completely stopped talking to me after school ended. The same happened with my 3-4 college friends. I always try my best to keep friendships alive. I am always the one sending the last message. It has never happened that someone messaged me and I didn't reply.

​During college, I continued to stay far away from girls. I kept myself completely detached from Facebook, WhatsApp, or any conversations with them. No girl from my college can ever say I looked at her; when I walk down the street, I keep my gaze lowered.

​When my university life started, I made two male friends, and our bond is still good, though I don't know how long it will last. I also have a couple of senior university brothers who guide me well in real life. Other than them, my parents and my younger siblings are my only true close ones.

​In university, people naturally add each other on Facebook regardless of gender. But I never accepted requests from girls. You might wonder how I managed my academic updates!! I used to get all the information from a male friend who was in the messenger groups. I used to be in those groups initially but left later. Many girls from my department would send me message requests asking for assignment help or info about teachers, because I am close with the teachers. But I never accepted those requests. I know that if I do, a conversation will start. I want to stay 100% loyal to my future partner. I have saved all my feelings in my heart just for that one person. I also rarely post pictures on Facebook; I prefer enjoying the real world.

# 3#​The Core Issue:

Now, let me explain the title of this post. I’ve seen both arranged marriages and love marriages. I try to be an honest person in every aspect of life. Everything I’ve written above is 100% true. You can even come into my real life and verify it.

​Everyone develops feelings of love, whether they express it or not. As a human, I have feelings too. No matter how much I stay away from girls, my dream is to reach my "Dream Girl." But my main problem is: I literally cannot talk to girls.

​They say "Don't judge a book by its cover," but in my experience, I can read 70-80% of a person just by looking at their face and behavior. Whenever I see a girl who is exactly my "type", a weird feeling takes over me. I wish I could just tell her how I feel. But then my brain immediately thinks, "What if she assumes I do this with every girl?" I fear she will think I'm a bad person. Because of that fear, I never initiate. Everyone in my area knows me as a polite, decent guy. Sometimes girls hold eye contact with me for a long time, but I drop my gaze. I just feel shy and scared.

​There have been so many chances where I saw my type of girl, and they responded positively, but I just couldn't speak. I don't know how to start? I don't know if this is a good trait or a bad one. If I keep being like this, I will never find my dream girl.

​I’ve watched social experiments and even taken advice from AI, but I still can't talk. Can someone explain what is wrong with me? How do I get my dream girl? I am completely lost. Going through life completely alone without a relationship is incredibly painful. Only someone who doesn't have a person to share their heart with will understand this pain. I can't even explain my sadness.

​Believe me, I am crazy about my dream girl. I constantly dream about her. I wonder what she's doing, and if she's thinking about me too. She can't even imagine how many dreams I weave about her. I will love her so, so much.

​I don't know what girls look for in a guy. But trust me, I have a pure heart. A person's wealth doesn't matter to me; human emotions are invaluable and can never be bought. I despise "Gold Diggers", families or girls who judge a guy based on his money. I have immense, genuine respect for someone who will love me (or marry their daughter to me) for my emotions, loyalty, honesty, politeness, and care. If someone loves me just for my money, I will always view them as greedy, no matter how much outward respect I show.

​How do I achieve my dream girl? Can someone please tell me?

# 4# ​What My Dream Girl Looks Like:

I want a girl who understands me, and I will understand her. She must be loyal. I want her to be kind, helpful, and compassionate to others. She must share everything with me and hide nothing so that she feels I am her mirror. She must trust me.

​She shouldn't have any male friends, and honestly, no "best friend" either, I will be her best friend, and she will be mine. We will complete each other.

​**Physical & Personal Traits:** She must have an innocent look. Her height should be similar to mine (I am 5'5"). Weight should be between 64-67 kg. Her body type should be Hourglass. She should have wavy hair, which is my absolute favorite. She must be very conscious about her health, diet, and hygiene. Above all, she must have an "Omega Personality." She needs to be confident and follow basic religious principles.

# 5#What I Will Do For Her:

I will listen to whatever she says, as long as it is valid and moral. I will do whatever it takes to keep her happy. I will try to fulfill all her hobbies. I will be 100% loyal to her. I won't talk to any other girls (I currently have zero contact with any anyway). I want to be her only love.

​No matter how busy I am, I will always check up on her. I won't do anything without her permission. I will text her minute-by-minute updates of what I am doing. I will give her ALL my social media accounts so she never ever doubts me. I will be loyal, trusted, and take immense care of her. I will respect her deeply and be obedient to her. I will look after her health and pay attention to every little detail. I won't ever let her be sad. I will give her full emotional support and do whatever it takes to keep her confident. I will help her with all her chores and never let her do anything that causes her pain. I will only love her. Only her...

# 6#​About Me:

I deeply respect people, whether I know them or not. I always try to help others. Anyone who knows me will tell you this. I respect women immensely.

​I am very conscious about my health. I follow a regular diet and try to work out regularly. Due to study pressure, I don't have time for sports, so I do morning runs and bodyweight exercises. I eat healthy, avoid junk food, don't smoke, and don't drink. I try to stay well-dressed.

​**Physical traits:** I am 5'5". My body type is a slight Mesomorph (I don't do heavy lifting, so I won't call it full Mesomorph). I am very career-oriented and actively working on my future.

# 7#​My Request🙏

If you have read this far, I hope you understand my situation. To the girl who match my type and read this: What kind of guys do you like? How should I approach or talk to you?

​If there is anyone out there who matches my description and wants to connect, please let me know. I will directly contact your parents. I will not waste your time or play with your emotions.

Also, if any parents, siblings, uncles, or aunts are reading this and think I’d be a good match for someone in your family, please DM me without hesitation. I will be eternally grateful to you. I am not a scammer, and you can verify me in real life.

​To the older, more experienced people here: Please give me some advice. Please don't misunderstand me or curse at me in the comments. I am just pouring my feelings out to you all.

​If you read this, please leave an upvote so the post reaches more people. If possible, share your thoughts in the comments or share this post. I am extremely sorry for taking up your valuable time, but thank you so much. ✍️

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