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A note on the 5th King of Rome

A note on the 5th King of Rome

Lucius Tarquinius Priscus, known as Tarquin the Elder, was Ancus Marcius’ natural successor after gaining his liking. Of Etruscan origin, he ruled Rome with vision and a sharp engineering attitude. He built the likes of the cloaca maxima (that was likely inspired by sewers in Etruria), the circus Maximus, and the temple of Jupiter Optimus Maximus. In this painting by Sebastiano Ricci, we can see Tarquin consulting Attus Nevius the Augur. Tarquin sought to make political changes that honoured himself. Attus Nevius opposed Tarquins desires, citing that in order to do this, the omens must first be right. To prove this and that he had the will of the divine, he cut through a whetstone with a razor.

In this painting we can see a few key details.  First, is the auger pleading on his knees to Tarquin to listen to his divine request. On the very left we can see a man raising his hand to get the auger to “chill out” and to compose himself in from of the King. On the right, we see a mother holding her child as she watches the proceeding, she is uninvolved with the interactions since caring for her child is the most important priority, but she is still curious and perhaps slightly entertained by the auger’s desperate plead. 

Despite the people behind the auger downplaying him, Tarquin the Elder still stands interested, and takes the auger’s plead seriously. This is a reflection of his Engineering mindset. He places his hand on his chin, squints down at the auger and sincerely listens to what he has to say. 

“Please!!! You must listen!!! I have blessings of the divine!!!! See as I cut through this stone with my blade!!!! 

  • Cries Attus Nevius

“Hmmm, go on….” 

  • Says Tarquin the Elder

Tarquin the Elder is a role model because even despite being King of Rome, who is basked in power and riches, still spends the time to listen to an individual considered inferior to the King. We can find this trait in many examples such as the Citicorp Center engineering crisis, which ended up saving lives.

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u/Own_Confection1295 — 6 hours ago
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Upset that I didn't make a move on a girl, twice

23M, 5'11. There have been on numerous occasions over the last few years of some girls checking me out in public, however there are two instances that stand out to me the most because I had such a good chance of making a move on them.

The first time was 3 years ago when I was in the university hallway, as I was refilling my bottle at the fountain, this beautiful girl walks by, sees me, and just completely stands still to look at me smile for at least 10 seconds. I look at her, try to be non-chalant, and don't smile back and just continue refilling my bottle, I guess she senses I was not interested and proceeds to walk away. Gone forever.

The second time was 2 months ago in a different city. I was at the train station with a friend, a pair of girls a few feet in front of us are also waiting, one of them however was so absolutely gorgeous. I continue to look at her, then I start noticing her looking back at me periodically checking me out. We get on the train, we seductively lock eyes with each other before she darts off in the other direction to catch another train that was about to leave. Gone.

I'm mad at myself everyday for not making a move on these girls because the opportunity was literally right there in front of me. The one just 2 months ago was so absolutely gorgeous, her face and body pop up in my head all time. I did have girlfriend last year for a few months (I approached her at the gym). I liked her, but she wasn't the right one for me, so we ended things. Now I've been kicking myself for these other missed opportunities/connections.

I've been really upset lately. Am I crazy for letting this upset me? Anyone have advice? I've considered going on the dating apps. I live in the Mid-West. Any comments welcome.

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u/Own_Confection1295 — 8 hours ago