u/One_Clothes_4841

TW bf with suicide thoughts, what do I do. im stuck

Me and my bf have been in a relationship for around 8

months. recently he had really been struggling with mental health and hes been to the point of suicide many times and thinks about it often at this point its constantly on his mind and he has started SH ing. its about the way he looks i tell him he looks handsome, as I genuinely believe he does. he hates the way he looks and once he gets onto one thing he moves to the next. I love him I really do but I dont know how to help him anymore, ive told him to tell him parents he did, that didnt go well then told him to go to the GP, he did that didnt go well. they dont listen to him. hes got another apointment coming up. but they DO NOT listen to him. I don't know what I can do anymore I will always stay by his side however I feel like im making it worse sometimes I dont know what to say and dont know how to react. I wich i did but I dont know. please anyone can you give me some advice. his parents are thinking about sending him into a phyc ward. hes scared. he doesn't know when he will or wont do it. Im scared for his sake, what do I say?

hes very self conscious, and says im so much higher than him. I have low self esteem too not as bad as his but like should I stop sending pictures of my face, I dont think I look good but like what am I ment to do. i feel like I just make it

worse

I have to be good enough fir him to stay but not too good where he thinks he doesn't deserve me and then does something irreversible

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u/One_Clothes_4841 — 2 days ago

I am 18F with 18M i have a hard time looking at my body and liking the way I look. I am very much very insecure

he does know that.

we are both a virgin however have had conversations about sex in the past. im scared that he sees what i see. im scared he will be discussed. don't get me wrong hes amazing and thinks i look great and talks about how im " so much out if his league " but im so scared he will think im fat or not like my body. hes a virgin so what if he finds me weird or doesnt like looking at me

has anyone elts felt like this , what did you do

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u/One_Clothes_4841 — 7 days ago

Iam going out all day on Saturday, multiple hours (4+) in the car then more elts where.... my period is coming up. what do i do if its day 3 and after thats fine not day 1 and 2 . its specific day as its my birthday.date cant be changed. can anyone help to delay it or somthing or any advice 🤣

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u/One_Clothes_4841 — 7 days ago