u/Ok-Yellow-1373

So my boyfriend (21M) earns around 30k, and I’m still in college with no stable income. The thing is… we split the bill every single time. There’s never a moment where he just offers to treat me.

Once I was short by just 300 and he still asked me to pay him back. That didn’t sit right with me at all.

He also forgot our special day, even though I got him a thoughtful gift worth around 4k. And in the 9 months we’ve been together, I’ve asked him just once for flowers — just a small gesture — and he’s never done it.

Also, it’s not like he has major responsibilities — his family is well-off, so it’s not a financial pressure thing either.

I’m not asking for expensive things, just some effort and thoughtfulness once in a while.

Am I expecting too much, or is it fair to feel hurt about this?