u/Noor-e-Zulmat

Do you guys ever force yourself to focus?

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Usually this happens when I'm watching a video, but I have to genuinely force myself and fight myself so hard to not give into distractions or switch tabs/videos and just focus on what I'm currently watching

It could be even a video I actually want to watch or a task I really need to do, but there's like a voice or a puppet in my brain telling and pushing me to turn my attention to something else

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u/Noor-e-Zulmat — 23 hours ago

listening to my mom made my ADHD better!

my mom says just wake up early and go out, there is no such thing as ADHD, and don't use your phone too much (while playing games all day on her phone)

anyway, I followed her advice to wake up early and go out after waking up

and decided to not use my phone for just one hour after waking up

that one hour somehow became 4-5 hours...

and I feel a lot better

Yeah I know that's anti-climatic and no one wanted to hear mom wisdom from every mom ever but it worked

maybe you all should listen to your mom too (except the part about denying the existence of ADHD and saying your diagnosis is fake and invalidating you)

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u/Noor-e-Zulmat — 1 day ago
▲ 0 r/ADHDerTips+1 crossposts

SCREEN YOURSELF TODAY FOR EVERY COMMON DISORDER AND POST THE RESULTS ON THE SUB!!

Q1. what is screening? why should I bother?

→ It indicates whether your symptoms may be worth discussing with a licenced professional, that's why you should screen yourself

Q2. I got high scores on some tests, now what to do?

→ go and consult a licenced profesional and show them the high scores, do not self-diagnose! A high score means this is worth checking' not 'you have this condition'. A low score does not completely rule anything out

LAZY VERSION:

ADHD → ASRS

Autism → RAADS-R

Anxiety → GAD-7

Depression → PHQ-9

FULL VERSION:

🐒⚡🎯❌ ADHD:

#1. WURS-25 (childhood symptoms):

https://novopsych.com/assessments/diagnosis/wender-utah-rating-scale-25-item-version-wurs-25/

#2. ASRS V1.1 (adult symptoms):

https://novopsych.com/assessments/diagnosis/adult-adhd-self-report-scale-asrs/

#3. WFIRS (functional impairment)

https://mhscales.com/wfirs

🧠🩹 CPTSD:

#1. International Trauma Questionnaire

https://novopsych.com/assessments/diagnosis/international-trauma-questionnaire-itq/

😣😕😵‍💫😰🔊 AUTISM:

#1. RAADS-R Test (Autism Traits in Adults)

https://novopsych.com/assessments/diagnosis/ritvo-autism-asperger-diagnostic-scale-revised-raads-r/

#2. CAT-Q (Masking in Autism)

https://novopsych.com/assessments/formulation/camouflaging-autistic-traits-questionnaire-cat-q/

😰💭 SOCIAL ANXIETY DISORDER (SAD):

#1. LSAS (Fear and Avoidance)

https://embrace-autism.com/the-liebowitz-social-anxiety-scale/

#2. SPIN (intensity of symptoms)

https://psychology-tools.com/test/spin

#3. BFNE (why it happens)

https://psytests.org/anxiety/bfneen.html

😣💭🌧️ Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD):

  1. GAD-7 (Symptom frequency + severity)

https://psychology-tools.com/test/gad-7

  1. PSWQ (repetitive, uncontrollable thinking patterns)

https://psychology-tools.com/test/penn-state-worry-questionnaire

  1. DASS-21 (bodily expression of anxiety)

https://novopsych.com/assessments/depression/depression-anxiety-stress-scales-short-form-dass-21/

⏳🌧️ PERSISTENT DEPRESSIVE DISORDER (PDD):

  1. PHQ-9 (Current Symptoms)

https://psychology-tools.com/test/phq-9

  1. DASS-21 (Depth)

https://novopsych.com/assessments/depression/depression-anxiety-stress-scales-short-form-dass-21/

⚡🌧️🌧🌧 MAJOR DEPRESSIVE DISORDER (MDD):

  1. PHQ-9

https://psychology-tools.com/test/phq-9

  1. BDI-II

https://terappin.com/en/test/beck-depression-inventory

🔁🧠🧼😣🔁 OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE DISORDER:

  1. OCI-R (symptoms)

https://psychology-tools.com/test/obsessive-compulsive-inventory-revised

  1. Y-BOCS (severity and impairment)

https://embrace-autism.com/yale-brown-obsessive-compulsive-scale/

  1. DOCS (depth)

http://www.jabramowitz.com/uploads/1/0/4/8/10489300/docs.pdf

⬆️⬇️ BIPOLAR DISORDER:

  1. MDQ (measures mania/hypomania)

https://novopsych.com/assessments/diagnosis/mood-disorder-questionnaire-mdq/

  1. HCL-32 (catches bipolar II)

https://telemedyk.online/en/free-mental-tests/modified-hypomania-symptom-checklist/

  1. YMRS (severity)

https://psychology-tools.com/test/young-mania-rating-scale

🌊🔥 BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER (BPD):

  1. MSI-BPD (quick screener)

https://novopsych.com/assessments/diagnosis/mclean-screening-instrument-for-bpd-msi-bpd/

  1. BSL-23 (severity)

https://novopsych.com/assessments/diagnosis/borderline-symptom-list-bsl-23/

⚠️ Comprehensive Disclaimer:

The information, links, and screening tools provided herein are for general informational and educational purposes only. They do not constitute, and must not be relied upon as, medical, psychological, or psychiatric advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The referenced screening instruments are not diagnostic and are not a substitute for a comprehensive evaluation by a qualified healthcare professional. Any results are indicative only and may be incomplete, inaccurate, or influenced by individual interpretation, context, and response bias. We make no representations or warranties regarding the scientific validity, reliability, accuracy, or applicability of any screening tool or content referenced. These tools may not reflect current clinical standards and should not be interpreted as definitive or authoritative. No doctor–patient, therapist–client, or other professional or fiduciary relationship is created by access to or use of this content. We are not licensed healthcare providers and do not offer clinical services. Nothing in this content should be interpreted as an endorsement, recommendation, or guarantee of any specific test, method, provider, or outcome. External links are provided solely for convenience. We do not control, review, verify, or guarantee the accuracy, reliability, safety, availability, or quality of any third-party content, services, or websites, and disclaim any responsibility for them. You are solely responsible for your use of this information and for any decisions or actions you take based on it. You should seek the advice of a qualified healthcare professional for any questions regarding your mental health. Do not disregard, avoid, or delay professional advice or treatment based on information obtained here. To the fullest extent permitted by applicable law, we disclaim all liability for any direct, indirect, incidental, consequential, special, exemplary, or punitive damages arising from or related to the use of, inability to use, or reliance upon this content or any linked third-party resources, including but not limited to any errors, omissions, inaccuracies, or outcomes associated with such use. By accessing or using this content, you acknowledge and agree that such use is entirely at your own discretion and risk.

u/Noor-e-Zulmat — 2 days ago

THE 5 SECOND RULE IS OP!

TLDR: The moment you think of doing something… you count 5-4-3-2-1 and STAND IMMEDIATELY

that's it, once you stand up, you will automatically do the task you are supposed to do :)

why this works: It interrupts task paralysis, bypasses your brain’s favorite hobby: procrastination rationalization, It forces action before emotion catches up

I AM GONNA TRY IT TODAY FOR GETTING OUT OF BED AND REPORT BACK IF IT WORKS, READ ABOUT THIS TIP ON SOME OTHER SUBREDDIT :)

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u/Noor-e-Zulmat — 4 days ago

Previous Psychiatrist said it's ILLNESS ANXIETY DISORDER, not ADHD

I am diagnosed now, this is a post about my past, wanting to vent here...

Most of the psychiatrists/psychologists I have had in my life have never listened to me, they just look at my face and read my face and say

AHA! GOT YOU! YOU HAVE DEPRESSION! HERE, TAKE ZOLOFT! IT WILL CURE YOU HAHAHAH

and every Psychiatrist tries to push their expensive 200-300 dollar for 30 minutes therapy onto me and gets angry when I say NOPEEE, I can't afford that doc

one time I was really pissed and tired of being dismissed, I did an ASRS, WURS 25, BAARS IV, doc didn't even look at that stuff, just saw my 10 pages file and said AHA!

IT'S ILLNESS ANXIETY DISORDER! YOU ARE WORRIED ABOUT YOUR MENTAL HEALTH!

I said...I suspect I might have ADHD, Ma'am can you kindly read my childhood history I have written it here and these screening tools might help convey my thoughts better as I forget what to say when I am under stress

The doctor basically said, nah, I don't trust written stuff, and I know you want that methylphenidate thingy, it's basically Methamphetamine, the thing they use in that breaking bad show, I don't believe in medicine for ADHD, I will cure your ADHD with my therapy!

the psychiatrist proceeded to write an impossible schedule on the back of my prescription (I can attach a photo if anyone wants)

'you will sleep at X time, wake up at Y time, study at Z time, Exercise at B time, and you will do this, that exactly, and you will not use your phone for more than 10 minutes a day'

I said...Doc I can barely even brush my teeth, how am I gonna do that?

doc told me that I am just making excuses and to believe in the power of willpower, Methamphetamine is bad.

My entire family praised the doctor for her experience and adequate dealing with ADHD, she's a big consultant at a very big hospital in my country and is very knowledgabe, I was truly amazed by her remarkable knowledge and her erudite comments on ADHD and medication, 10/10 doctor, I recommend all my friends to go to to her now!

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u/Noor-e-Zulmat — 4 days ago

ADHD IS AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP YOU CAN'T GET OUT OF

I know that's a weird analogy but guys, ADHD really feels like that sometimes...I mean, I know I don't wanna be like this but I don't have a choice, and I know it's ruining my life but sometimes I also want it because it seems fun to have ADHD? like being able to make jokes out of nothing, being able to hyperfocus on niche topics, people think you are super smart because you know everything about XYZ niche topic but you know nothing about the stuff you are supposed to know to make money in the world...

it really does feel like an abusive relationship, but there's no escape, no option to leave, the only way out is death, and I don't wanna take it

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u/Noor-e-Zulmat — 5 days ago