u/No_Bed_2468

I (18f) had an abortion in February.

The grief is sometimes unbearable but I don’t regret it. It was 100% the right choice for me and the sake of þy child (fetus, but I like to call them my child. It helps me cope)

Pro life really has zero empathy for women who have had abortions. I once posted about my abortion to grief and got death threats in my messages inbox.

I am a mother, some people wouldn’t agree.

I have severe chronic illness and get payed by the government to survive, I’m still in school and I am barely financially stable enough to care for myself.

I don’t want to be the reason my child has to go through that.

I did what was best for my child, that’s what good mothers do.

Thank you.

Hey, everyone.

I’m writing this since I don’t really know how to cope.

I had an MA when I was 6 weeks 4 months ago and I really miss my baby, I sometimes regret it, but deep down it was the right decision for us, and our childs life.

Any tips?

I have been avoiding posting this because its been a very hard time dealing with this.

I posted on here some days ago about light bleeding and concerns, it eventually got really heavy and additionally I got a fever, so we called the woman’s health ER clinic in my county and they told us to come immediately.

It was then confirmed that I had a miscarriage. It’s been very nice talking to you guys, you’re all so sweet.

I don’t know how to grief this with mother’s day coming up (which might sound selfish but I’m literally dreading it), so if anyone who has had an MC, advice is very welcomed.

thank you.

I’ve reported this account and its videos hundreds of times by now and TikTok apparently never finds anything that violates their rules.

It’s an account mainly containing weird shitpost ai generated images of me and then in one video the hashtag is my boyfriends name. His friends deny that they’re doing it and my boyfriend says its not like them to do something like this.

It’s causing me alot of emotional distress. I tried to not think about it and carry on with my day as normally but they keep tagging me and my boyfriend.

None of the AI pictures are of my boyfriend, all are just me. I really want to take down this account but whatever I do TikToks moderation team refuses. If I can’t take it down I atleast would appreciate some tips or tools on how to track down the owner of the account.

⚠️!!UPDATE!!⚠️

We finally tracked down who the account user is!
It’s his ex who cheated on him a year ago.
We also found out that it is very illegal to do this in our country and can even get you up to one year in jail, or pay a high fine.

We have asked her to take the account down, if she won’t we will threaten to report this to the police.

Thank you all so much for the advice☺️

TW: Slight talks of MC (or more anxiety about the possibility)

So, a few days ago my discharge had a pink tint in it. Now it’s back with very mild period like cramps. It’s nothing compared to my normal period, it is often gone in a few wipes and again, very light pink and even some slightly light brown but more pinkish.

I read that MCs are followed with heavy bleeding and bad period like cramps but I can’t help but be concerned.

I’m only around 4-5 weeks along so still very early on in my pregnancy.

ALSO

the cramps are mostly gone (for now) but still I can’t help but be scared

My cycle is often around 29-30 days so according to due date calculators online I'm either set on dec 31st or jan 1st...

Ofcourse this will all be confirmed on my first screening but I still wanted to ask :)