Have not been intimate in 3.5 years
I am 30F, and I hope it is okay that I write here - I have been a lurker in this sub, and the people seem to be kind and understanding. I am feeling a little vulnerable posting this here.
I have struggled finding love, and I have had some not-so-great relationships and experiences/situationships. I have had nothing serious in a few years, and I tried to find love on and off, but I have not much luck. I have tried dating apps and going to social events. I even asked my friends if they knew anyone that they could set me up on a date with. I have not been intimate since 2022, when I said I would wait for a guy that actually likes me. Most one-night stands are not enjoyable anyways. However, I miss being intimate, and it gets quite lonely having no one to falls asleep next to.
I see people getting into happy relationships, going on fun dates, moving in with their partners, getting married, etc. I would love that too, but I barely get crumbs. I have focused/worked on myself in the past, and I am ready to find my person. Any advice/tips would be appreciated <3
EDIT: forgot to mention my girl dinner - tonkatsu ramen ❤️ was delicious
EDIT #2: thank you guys for the supportive messages/comments ❤️ it made me feel better about my situation and less alone! sending lots of love ❤️