u/New-Mudpie

Going back to work

Divorce adjacent-ish but hoping to find someone with a similar experience on going back to work after a nasty divorce process? I left a “big” career job due to things happening inside my deteriorating marriage and the following divorce.

I’m starting to put myself back out there but I’m worried about how much I should or need to explain about why I left my last job/s.

To summarize a bit, I did two years at a company and got a promotion and was even recognized by the CEO directly for the work I did but due to the things happening inside my home at that time I took FMLA, and ended up taking on a totally remote and higher paying role because I needed to. THAT position ended up being impossible to learn and do while getting a divorce and being a single parent so I quit. Not good-I’m aware but I was trying to swim in a sink or swim situation and clearly, I sank.

I’ve been doing part time jobs since, and am now trying to figure out how I move forward into a career again and, well even I can see how I probably look to hiring managers.

I’m an outsider in a small community too, so it’s not like my name carries any weight or I can hope for someone to refer me directly.

TIA

reddit.com
u/New-Mudpie — 6 days ago

Please please tell me this gets better or how I make it survivable? I’m almost 1 year since I told my ex husband I wanted a divorce and I just don’t know how I’m supposed to do this for the next 15 years of my life.

I hate parenting through his parents, I hate that when I do try and communicate with him I’m either the biggest bad guy or absolutely stonewalled. I hate that I just have to accept that this is my life.

YES I am in therapy. NO my family is not helpful.

reddit.com
u/New-Mudpie — 10 days ago