u/New-Increase1826

ashamed myself

So few days ago I went to my uncle’s house for lunch upon their invitation. The house had a new bride( bhauju, wife of my cousin brother). I had this rule in whichever relatives I goto i wash my own dishes. But after I ate they insisted I leave the dishes as the sink was occupied. It felt okay as it was my own uncle’s house. most of the time i do the dishes there. but then i realized bhauju had to do the dishes. and aunties made it feel like it was her duty. wtf. Omg the embarrassment i felt that time.
my own brother has a gf with whom he lives. and never have i ever seen him make her do the dishes or cook any of the food except for boiling water lol. even when I lived with them, me and my brother used to do all the chores. don’t say anything for her she is so sweet.

its not a big deal that my cousin bhauju did the dishes. its big deal cause she is a newly wed. why did i even let that happen. being a introvert sometime sucks. couldn’t say anything atm. shi i could have not embarrassed myself

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u/New-Increase1826 — 7 days ago