One of my close family members passed yesterday and it is affecting me badly. I don’t know how I will be able to get to my classes this week that have mandatory attendance. I also need to graduate in one month. Is there any policy or accomodation that UCSD has in place for this situation?
One of the things that hurts me most 2 weeks post-breakup with an avoidant is not even the years I lost to him, but the fact that he rewrote the story to make me seem like an evil villain. I keep wondering what our mutual friends think (that are closer with him and I haven’t spoken to since) and his family (who blocked me). I keep wishing I could have a chance to talk to everyone and tell them the truth.
it hurts me that he took zero accountability when I broke up. I was seen as the villain for ending things despite the fact that I ended it due to him being so mean, cold, withdrawing his affection, giving me ultimatums, making me feel worthless, and so much more.
I know this because we talked a few days after we broke up and I asked him what he told everyone. I haven’t spoke to him since.
Why do I care what others think? Especially because I wont see them again? What is the psychology behind this?