I feel risky for rescuing these after seeing the mama plants infested with spider mites. Gonna mist them with alcohol and quarantine them- wish me luck!
I have dark almost black natural hair and dye my grays/roots monthly. I lightened the ends and areas around my face and in my bangs and don’t want to go lighter, but don’t want it this orange either. Is there a toner I can use to get some ash over the brass but keep the level it’s at? I tried wella t35 but it’s not lightened enough for it to make a big difference. Basically I want it more honey light brown than brass. If not, I’m going to mix blue dye with conditioner and tone the orange out, but looking for something more permanent if possible
An old friend recently moved back to the area and has been having a tough time finding stable work/purpose. She went to the psych ward a month ago and I watched her cat. The nurse who called said they would put her on medication for her spiraling thoughts, but they released her and did not give her new medication to try. Recently she’s been making really paranoid statements or assessments- thinking she is being tracked online for one, and another was her being at a play thinking all the actors were in on something and that they shined a light on her at the end of the show. She’s been saying she feels overwhelmed and paranoid and I did express that I thought some of what she was thinking was just paranoia, but didn’t want her to feel dismissed. Do I take her back to a hospital or give her space? I have had my own mental health issues in the past and am having trouble knowing what to say when she calls crying. I want to be there for her but don’t feel equipped and it also brings up difficult and uncomfortable feelings from when I wasn’t doing well years ago. I feel responsible and don’t know where to go from here.
Someone reported one of my recent collages as not my original work. They’re always my original work 🤷🏻♀️this one too! 😝