One thing I'm confident about in NEET is I look damn well and beautiful in my admit card's photo, anyways, can I stick the same photo next year and just change the date of it by getting it edited in a cyber?
Hello women of India. TW : ABUSE, RAPE
My context : I've been through a severely abusive relationship and I got groomed by someone quite older than me. I was like 14-15, unaware of how people manipulate, what are red flags etc etc, people didn't talk much about it and my perception of love was based on movies and songs. I got abused mentally and somewhat physically too. He never laid a hand on me but asked me to harm myself and humiliate myself etc etc. Which happened, sometimes infront of others TOO. He posted my no. As a call girl on my stories from my account and had a lot of control over my life. Kind of tried to sexually assault me too.
I was also severally depressed, very insecure, had very little social connection with people of my age, was isolated in school etc etc and thought my parents didn't care about me.
Now I suffer from alot of self esteem issues, I think I'm undesirable because why would anyone want someone with such baggage when they can have someone normal? Especially these days. Whenever I hear men talking about women's trauma on social media, stand up, or reddit, they always say that it's too much and who's got the time to deal with all that? It hurts me a lot and is a constant reminder. I've moved on, I've been working on myself for several years now, but nights like today's are HARD on me.
> Anyways, let this be a safe thread for people who want to talk about their abuse at any point of time. I made it because I couldn't find anywhere to talk about it.
Simple question. You might not think about it much while saying yes, but it comes with very strict and a lot of boundaries which might seem unreasonable, a lot of privacy and other mental issues and emotional baggage etc, it's easy to say yes, but will take a lot of patience.
Ofc they'd try to improve themselves and not dump it all on you, but you'd have to take some bumps obviously. So, would you ever do it?
I assume people get into relationships to feel better, to feel relaxed, to feel at comfort, why would someone date someone so problematic? There are so many beautiful people who're of simple lives and simple minds, so many easy going people with whom you won't have to waste all your energy on them. So why would someone?
Also, if the woman you're already dating tells you about her history of being abused etc, how would you feel?
To all the fathers or men who want kids reading this, take care of them. <3